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  • Neti Neti Series No. 5: Integrating “Not This, Not This” into Daily Life

    Question:

    How can the mantra Neti Neti continue to arise spontaneously throughout the day, and how might one practice it during ordinary tasks and interactions in the dualistic world

    Dear friend,

    As your practice deepens, it is only natural that the mantra “Neti Neti” begins to echo beyond the confines of formal meditation, weaving itself into the very fabric of your daily life. This is a beautiful and auspicious development, for the true power of this practice lies not only in moments of stillness and silence but in its capacity to transform your experience of the world in each passing moment.

    Imagine, if you will, the gentle rhythm of “Neti Neti” accompanying you throughout your day. Whether you are engaged in the simplest of tasks or the most complex of interactions, this mantra can serve as a quiet, steady undercurrent, reminding you of the deeper truth that lies beneath the surface of all appearances.

    As you move through the day, allow “Neti Neti” to arise naturally in your mind, especially when you find yourself caught up in the dualities of life—the push and pull of desires, the highs and lows of emotions, the ceaseless demands of the world around you. When a thought or feeling arises that seems to pull you away from your center, gently remind yourself, “Not This, Not This.” This simple act of negation is not a rejection of life, but rather an invitation to see beyond the fleeting, to touch the eternal within the everyday.

    Consider the ordinary tasks that fill your day—the washing of dishes, the folding of clothes, the tending to work or errands. These moments, though seemingly mundane, are fertile ground for your practice. As you engage in these tasks, silently repeat “Neti Neti” to yourself. Notice how this mantra helps to dissolve the sense of separation between you and the task at hand. The distinction between the doer and the doing, the subject and the object, begins to fade, leaving you with a simple, clear awareness of being.

    This practice brings a certain lightness to even the most routine activities, a reminder that nothing in this world can truly define or confine you. “Not This, Not This,” the mantra whispers, freeing you from the weight of identification, allowing you to move through your day with a sense of ease and grace.

    And what of your interactions with others, in this dualistic world where we often find ourselves entangled in the roles we play—the parent, the partner, the friend, the colleague? Here, too, the mantra “Neti Neti” can be a guiding light.

    When you feel the pull of attachment or aversion in your relationships, when you sense the stirrings of ego in your interactions, gently remind yourself, “Not This, Not This.” This does not mean withdrawing from the people you care about or disengaging from the world. On the contrary, it allows you to engage more fully, with a heart that is open and free from the constraints of egoic identifications.

    In this way, you interact not from a place of separation or need, but from a place of wholeness and completeness. “Not This, Not This,” the mantra says, and in doing so, it clears the way for true connection, untainted by the projections and fears that so often cloud our relationships.

    As you continue to carry “Neti Neti” with you throughout your day, you may find that the boundaries between your formal meditation and your daily life begin to blur. The mantra becomes a thread that connects all aspects of your existence, reminding you constantly of the truth that lies beyond all appearances.

    There will be moments when the mantra arises spontaneously, without any effort on your part. In these moments, let it guide you back to your center, to the stillness that underlies all movement. And in the spaces between the mantra, rest in the awareness that is your true self, free from all identifications, all dualities.

    Dear friend, this is the essence of living the practice—allowing the wisdom of “Not This, Not This” to permeate every aspect of your life, transforming the mundane into the sacred, the ordinary into the extraordinary. It is a journey of continual letting go, a path that leads ever deeper into the heart of your being.

    May your practice bring you the peace and clarity you seek, and may you walk this path with the gentle strength and quiet joy that comes from knowing you are always, already whole.

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  • Neti Neti Series No. 4: Finding Relaxation and Clarity in the Practice of “Not This, Not This

    Question:

    Why does the mantra Neti Neti feel more relaxing and effective compared to other mantras like “Who am I?” or “What is this?” and how does it help in negating both subject and object without stimulating a desire for answers?

    Dear friend,

    It brings me great joy to hear that you have found a mantra that resonates so deeply with your heart and mind. The simplicity and profound wisdom of “Not This, Not This” are indeed a balm for the soul, especially for one who has journeyed far in search of answers. In this mantra, you have discovered a path that requires no seeking, no striving—only the gentle negation of all that arises.Let me share with you some reflections that may deepen your understanding and ease your way as you continue with this practice.

    In the practice of “Not This, Not This,” there is no need to engage in the endless search for answers. Unlike the questions “Who am I?” or “What is this?”—which can stir the mind into seeking—this mantra offers a different approach. It does not ask you to solve a riddle or uncover a hidden truth. Instead, it invites you to simply let go, to recognize that whatever arises—whether it appears as a thought, an emotion, or even an answer—is not the ultimate reality. By gently negating each thought or feeling, you are led beyond the confines of the mind, into a space where true peace and stillness reside.

    As you continue with this practice, you may find moments of clarity where you can distinctly see both the subject and the object—the observer and the observed. This is a crucial insight, for it shows you that what you are perceiving, what you are witnessing, is still within the realm of duality. The mantra “Not This, Not This” serves as a reminder that neither the subject nor the object is the true self, the Atman. The duality that appears so real is, in fact, just another layer to be gently set aside, leading you deeper into the heart of non-dual awareness.

    One of the great gifts of this mantra is the relaxation it brings. When you are no longer compelled to search for answers, the mind can rest. There is a profound release that comes from knowing that you do not need to grasp at anything—whether it be a thought, an experience, or an identity. Each time you repeat “Not This,” you are allowing yourself to let go of the burdens of the mind, to release the tension of trying to understand or control. In this letting go, you find a deep and abiding peace, a state of being where you are free from the demands of the ego and the constant chatter of the mind.

    This practice is gently guiding you toward a state of non-dual awareness, where the distinctions between self and other, subject and object, begin to dissolve. As you continue with “Not This, Not This,” you may notice that the boundaries you once perceived are fading away, leaving you in a space of pure being. In this space, there is nothing to seek, nothing to achieve—only the simple, profound experience of existence itself, free from all labels, judgments, and identities. This is the true essence of Atman, the pure awareness that is your deepest self.

    As you walk this path, my dear friend, know that you are not alone. The wisdom of the ages supports you, and the truth of your being is always present, waiting patiently for you to recognize it. Continue with your practice, allowing the mantra to guide you ever deeper into the heart of silence and stillness. And remember, there is no rush, no destination—only the journey, unfolding moment by moment.

    May your practice bring you peace, clarity, and the deep joy of simply being.

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  • Neti Neti Series No. 3: Seeking to Understand the True Nature of the Self

    Question:

    As I continue with the mantra “Not This, Not This,” a new layer of understanding has begun to unfold. I realize that even what I have thought of as Witness Consciousness is not the ultimate truth. The Witness, as I experience it, seems to be the cultivation of equanimity—a state of being not distracted or disturbed by whatever arises.

    But even this Witness, this sense of “I” that observes with equanimity, is still not the Atman, is it? It is a step in the right direction, a refinement of awareness, but it is still an identification, a subtle form of ego that remains.

    It occurs to me that the mantra “Not This, Not This” could continue indefinitely, as long as there is an “I” who is meditating, an “I” who witnesses. For even this witnessing, even this equanimity, is not the ultimate reality. The mantra, I think, would stop on its own when the meditator dissolves into the natural state of non-dual awareness. And then, as soon as the sense of “I” returns—as in the awareness of being a meditator—the mantra would begin again naturally.

    Is this understanding correct? How should I continue with my practice, knowing that even the Witness is “Not This”?

    Dear friend,

    Your reflections are filled with a deep and subtle wisdom, and it is clear that your practice is guiding you ever closer to the heart of truth. You are right to recognize that even the Witness Consciousness, the state of equanimity where one observes without being disturbed, is not the ultimate realization. It is a significant step, yes—a refinement of the mind that allows for greater clarity and peace—but it is still within the realm of duality.

    The Witness, as you experience it, is still a form of identification. It is the “I” that watches, the “I” that remains calm in the face of arising thoughts and sensations. But as long as there is an “I” who observes, there is still a subtle separation between the observer and the observed, between the subject and the object. This is why your mantra, “Not This, Not This,” continues even here.

    Indeed, the mantra serves to negate everything that arises, even the most refined states of awareness. It is a tool that guides you to see that the true self, Atman, is beyond all states, beyond all experiences—even beyond the experience of witnessing.

    You are correct in thinking that the mantra would naturally stop on its own when the sense of “I” dissolves into the natural state. In this state, there is no longer a subject who perceives and an object that is perceived—there is only pure being, pure awareness, which is Atman. This state is non-dual; it is beyond the distinctions of self and other, beyond the need for a mantra, beyond the need for any practice at all.

    But until this dissolution occurs, until the “I” fully merges with the infinite, the mantra serves as your faithful guide. It may continue in the background, a gentle whisper that affirms “Not This, Not This,” as you move closer to the realization of your true nature. And yes, as you so insightfully noted, the mantra may begin again whenever the sense of “I” returns, whenever duality reappears.

    This is the natural ebb and flow of practice, dear traveler. The mantra is not something you force to stop; it stops when there is no longer an “I” to sustain it. And when the “I” re-emerges, the mantra resumes, continuing its sacred work of leading you back to the stillness, the silence, the undivided whole that is your true self.

    Continue with this understanding, with patience and trust in the process. The path of “Not This, Not This” is one of deepening subtlety, where even the most refined states are ultimately seen as steps along the way to the infinite. Your journey is leading you ever closer to the realization of Atman, where the distinctions of self and other dissolve into the pure, unchanging awareness that is your true essence.

    May your practice bring you peace and clarity, and may you continue to walk this path with grace and humility.

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  • Neti Neti Series No. 2: The Mantra That Dissolves into Silence

    Question:

    As I sit in meditation, repeating the mantra “Neti Neti,” I understand that this sacred phrase helps to strip away all that I am not. Thoughts arise, and I negate them. Emotions surface, and I let them go. Even the awareness of being a witness or the experience of stillness—these too, I recognize as not the ultimate reality.

    Yet, a subtle dilemma has emerged. I wonder, what happens when the very idea of “I” who is meditating dissolves? Is it not true that as long as there is an “I” who continues the practice, the mantra “Neti Neti” must also continue? And if this is the case, does the mantra cease only when the “I” itself disappears into the natural state of pure being? In such a moment, is it the case that the mantra stops on its own, not by my choosing, but because there is no longer an “I” to hold it?

    And then, when the sense of “I” returns, does the mantra begin again naturally, as the duality of subject and object re-emerges? I seek your wisdom on this matter, for I wish to understand the true nature of this practice and its ultimate purpose.

    Dear friend,

    Your question, born from a place of sincere inquiry, touches upon the very heart of the “Neti Neti” practice. I commend you for your diligence and the subtlety of your understanding, which reveals a mind that is both reflective and deeply engaged in the journey inward.

    Yes, you have grasped a key truth: the mantra “Neti Neti” is indeed a tool for continuous negation. It is a practice of peeling away the layers of illusion, gently, one by one, until nothing remains but the pure, unadorned awareness that is your true nature.

    As long as there is an “I” who perceives itself as meditating, this “I” exists within the realm of duality—where there is a subject (the meditator) and an object (the practice, the mantra, the thoughts). In this dualistic state, the mantra serves its purpose, guiding the mind to recognize that each arising thought, each sensation, each experience of stillness or witnessing, is not the ultimate reality. “Not this, not this,” the mantra whispers, reminding you that you are not these transient phenomena.

    But what happens when the sense of “I” begins to dissolve? When the boundary between perceiver and perceived starts to blur and fade? Herein lies a profound mystery: as the “I” that meditates melts into the ocean of pure being, the mantra, too, falls silent. For in the state of non-duality, where all distinctions have vanished, there is no need for the mantra—no “I” to repeat it, no “other” to negate. What remains is the natural state, the effortless being that is beyond all concepts, all forms, all practices.

    In this state, you do not stop the mantra; rather, the mantra ceases on its own, like a river merging with the sea, no longer distinguishable as a separate entity. This silence is not a void but a fullness, an infinite expanse of awareness where the true self—Atman—is realized, free from the confines of duality.

    And yet, the journey doesn’t end there. If and when the sense of ‘I’ re-emerges, as it often does, the mantra returns naturally. This is not a step backward but a return to the dualistic state where the mind resumes its habitual patterns. The mantra then resumes its sacred task of guiding you back toward the still, silent center where the distinctions between self and other can once again dissolve.

    So, dear friend, your understanding is indeed correct. The mantra “Neti Neti” is not something to be stopped by an act of will, but rather it fades away of its own accord when there is no longer an “I” to sustain it. And when the “I” returns, the mantra too returns, ready to lead you back into the depths of stillness and silence.

    Trust in this process, and allow the practice to unfold naturally, without forcing or grasping. The journey of “Neti Neti” is one of gentle negation, patient observation, and deep surrender. In time, you will come to rest more and more in the natural state, where the mantra is no longer needed, and the self is known in its true, infinite nature.

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  • Introduction to Mantra Yoga: The Path of Sacred Sound and Spiritual Resonance

    Mantra Yoga is the yoga of sacred sound, a profound spiritual practice that involves the repetition of mantras—sacred syllables, words, or phrases—designed to elevate consciousness, focus the mind, and connect with the divine. This path taps into the vibrational power of sound to create harmony within the practitioner and with the universe, aligning the mind, body, and spirit through the resonance of these ancient sounds.

    The word “mantra” comes from the Sanskrit roots “man,” meaning mind, and “tra,” meaning tool or instrument. Therefore, a mantra is literally a tool for the mind, a means to transcend the ordinary mental chatter and enter a state of deep meditation and spiritual awareness. Through consistent practice, mantra yoga helps dissolve the ego, purify the heart, and cultivate a direct experience of the divine presence.

    In this blog series, we’ll dive into the practice of Mantra Yoga and explore how sacred sound can be a powerful tool for spiritual transformation.

    As we embark together on this journey of discovery and reflection, I warmly invite you to join me in exploring the depths of these ancient practices and teachings. Let this space be a sanctuary where we meet not just as seekers, but as companions on the path—a place where the wisdom of the ages can gently unfold within our lives.

    If these words and practices speak to something within you, if they stir a quiet longing or bring a sense of peace, I encourage you to subscribe to this blog. By doing so, you’ll be the first to know as new installments of our shared journey are published. It is my hope that each post will resonate with you, offering insights and comfort as we continue to explore these profound teachings together.

    For those interested in a comprehensive introduction to the practices of yoga, I recommend The Sivananda Companion to Yoga: A Complete Guide to the Physical Postures, Breathing Exercises, Diet, Relaxation, and Meditation Techniques of Yoga. This book offers clear guidance on the foundational aspects of yoga, making it an invaluable resource for anyone looking to deepen their understanding and practice. Take a look at this book on Amazon here.

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  • Book Review: The Masnavi I Ma’navi of Rumi – Whinfield Version

    The Masnavi I Ma’navi by Jalaluddin Rumi stands as one of the most important works of Sufi mysticism and spiritual literature, spanning six books and countless couplets of deep spiritual wisdom. In his Masnavi, Rumi uses parables, stories, and poetic teachings to convey profound insights into the nature of the soul, the ego, and the journey toward divine union. Often regarded as “the Quran in Persian,” this work holds immense value for seekers on the path of self-realization and spiritual growth.

    E.H. Whinfield’s translation of The Masnavi I Ma’navi remains one of the earlier and more literal renderings of Rumi’s monumental work. First published in 1887, Whinfield’s translation is known for its fidelity to the original Persian text. While it may lack the poetic flourish found in more recent translations, it offers a direct and unembellished presentation of Rumi’s teachings. This makes Whinfield’s version particularly valuable for those interested in a clear and faithful understanding of the spiritual messages without the influence of modern interpretation or adaptation.

    Whinfield’s work is often appreciated by scholars and serious students of mysticism for its precision and attention to detail. The translation presents Rumi’s messages about divine love, ego dissolution, and the human soul’s search for the Beloved with clarity and depth, making it a vital resource for anyone wishing to study The Masnavi in its original spirit. Through these six books, readers are invited to explore themes of spiritual enlightenment, the challenges of the ego, and the ultimate quest for unity with the divine.

    This review serves as a placeholder for further study of this version of The Masnavi, with plans for more detailed analysis and reflection on its teachings in the future.

    Why Choose the Whinfield Translation?

    While modern translations such as those by Coleman Barks and Reynold Nicholson are more poetic and accessible to contemporary readers, Whinfield’s work stays closer to the literal meaning of the original Persian, offering a more straightforward approach to Rumi’s often complex teachings. For those seeking a purer, less interpreted version of The Masnavi, Whinfield’s translation serves as an essential tool for deep study.

    Conclusion

    For spiritual seekers, mystics, and scholars alike, The Masnavi I Ma’navi in its Whinfield translation is a powerful gateway into Rumi’s universe. Its six books of spiritual couplets form a cornerstone of Sufi literature, guiding readers through the depths of spiritual struggle and the heights of divine love. Although less poetic, Whinfield’s version is a faithful companion for those who wish to engage with Rumi’s wisdom in a form that remains close to the original text.

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  • Introducing the Neti Neti Practice Series: A Journey of Self-Inquiry

    Welcome to the Practices of Neti Neti series, an exploration into one of the most profound methods of self-inquiry within the Advaita Vedanta tradition. This series is dedicated to the practice of Neti Neti—a Sanskrit phrase meaning “not this, not this”—which serves as a guide for stripping away all that is not the true Self, leading to the recognition of our pristine, unchanging nature.

    What is Neti Neti?

    Neti Neti is a process of negation that helps practitioners identify and discard false identifications with thoughts, emotions, and sensations. It is a method of peeling back the layers of the ego to reveal the stillness and silence of the pristine mind—the pure consciousness that is unaffected by the fluctuations of the mind. This practice is at the heart of Advaita Vedanta and is used to guide the seeker toward the realization of the Self, or Atman, which is ultimately one with Brahman, the universal consciousness.

    About This Series

    In this series, you will find a collection of questions and answers that delve deeply into the practice of Neti Neti. Each question is a reflection of the natural inquiries that arise during meditation and self-inquiry. The answers are written in a contemplative and encouraging style, as letters from a friend —offering wisdom, clarity, and support as you navigate your own journey of self-discovery.

    Why Questions and Answers?

    The format of questions followed by reflective answers is inspired by the teaching styles of great spiritual masters like Ramana Maharshi and Papaji. This approach allows for a dynamic exploration of the practice, addressing the doubts and insights that naturally emerge as one progresses on the path. By engaging with these questions, you’ll find that the answers are not merely intellectual responses, but invitations to deeper inquiry and realization.

    How to Use This Series

    This series is designed to be read sequentially, as the posts build upon each other, following the natural flow of practice and understanding. However, you are also welcome to explore the posts in any order, depending on where you are in your own practice.

    Each post presents a question that might arise during your meditation or reflection, followed by a letter that offers guidance on how to address it. These letters are not just answers—they are invitations to deepen your practice, to explore the subtleties of Neti Neti, and to connect with the stillness that lies beyond all mental events.

    Beginning the Journey

    As you embark on this journey through the Neti Neti practice, remember that this path is not about attaining something new, but about recognizing what has always been present. The goal is to gently guide the mind away from its distractions, allowing the pristine mind—your true nature—to shine through.

    Whether you are new to Neti Neti or looking to deepen your understanding, I invite you to explore these letters with an open heart and a quiet mind. May they serve as a steady guide on your path to self-realization.

    Engage and Explore Together

    I warmly encourage you to leave any questions or reflections in the comments section of each post. If a question resonates deeply or sparks a new line of inquiry, I may create additional blog posts to explore these topics further. Your engagement helps to create a community of shared learning, where we can all benefit from each other’s insights and experiences.

    Let us begin this journey together, one question and one insight at a time, as we uncover the truth of who we truly are.

    For those who wish to explore further the concept of pristine mind and its practices, I highly recommend Orgyen Chowang Rinpoche’s book, Pristine Mind: A Journey into Self-Awareness. Although this book does not specifically address the Neti Neti practice, it offers profound insights into the nature of pristine mind, a state of pure awareness that lies beyond the mental events and distractions that often cloud our perception. Rinpoche’s teachings provide a clear and accessible guide to realizing and resting in this natural state, which closely aligns with the ultimate goal of Neti Neti. You can explore the Kindle version of this book below, which may serve as a valuable companion on your journey of self-inquiry and spiritual awakening.

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  • Book Review: The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak

    Introduction:
    The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak is a remarkable novel that intertwines two parallel stories: the modern-day journey of Ella Rubenstein, who is undergoing a personal transformation through her engagement with a novel about Rumi and his spiritual teacher, Shams Tabrizi, and the historical relationship between Rumi and Shams in 13th-century Anatolia. Through these interconnected narratives, the novel explores themes of divine love, spirituality, and personal awakening.

    Background:
    At the heart of this novel is the transformative relationship between Shams Tabrizi and Jalal ad-Din Rumi. Shams, a wandering mystic known for his unconventional methods and profound wisdom, radically altered the course of Rumi’s life. Their bond became the source of Rumi’s spiritual awakening, leading him to write some of the most celebrated poetry in history.

    Shams’ teachings were rooted in Sufi traditions, emphasizing the dissolution of the ego, the centrality of love in spiritual practice, and the path toward divine union. His Diwan-i Shams-i Tabrīzī, a collection of poems attributed to him, captures his deep understanding of divine love. Shams’ presence in Rumi’s life was both disruptive and enlightening, awakening the poet to a higher consciousness, which Rumi expressed through his prolific works, including the Masnavi.

    The Forty Rules of Love:
    Elif Shafak’s novel is structured around the forty rules of love, which are teachings attributed to Shams. These rules serve as guideposts for navigating the human experience of love, both worldly and divine, and reflect key principles of Sufi mysticism. Shafak weaves these rules throughout the story, offering readers spiritual insights while engaging them in the personal struggles of her characters.

    Themes Explored:

    At the heart of The Forty Rules of Love lies a profound exploration of divine love, the kind of love that transcends the ordinary boundaries of human emotion. Through the lives of Rumi, Shams, and Ella, the novel delves deeply into the nature of love as both a mystical force and a transformative power. Shams’ teachings guide Rumi from a scholar and theologian into a poet of divine union, revealing love as a path that dissolves the ego and leads to spiritual awakening. This kind of love is not just a feeling but an illumination that binds the soul to the divine, guiding the seeker toward self-realization.

    Rumi’s own awakening, catalyzed by his connection with Shams, reflects this dissolution of the ego. In Shams’ eyes, the ego is the greatest barrier to true enlightenment. The novel, much like Rumi’s poetry, calls us to surrender the smaller self, to let go of the illusions we hold about our identity, and to step into a deeper experience of being—one in which we recognize that separation from the divine is the root of all suffering.

    Ella’s journey parallels Rumi’s in a modern context, as she begins to shed the constraints of her ordinary life, driven by a newfound understanding of love and spiritual depth. Her connection with the novel within the novel becomes a mirror to the relationship between Rumi and Shams, and she, too, is drawn into a process of inner transformation. The book masterfully illustrates how these timeless spiritual principles can apply to anyone, in any age, as they awaken to the deeper truths that exist beyond the confines of everyday existence.

    Ultimately, the novel’s greatest teaching may be that love, in its purest form, is the force that bridges all dualities—the sacred and the mundane, the earthly and the divine. Through the eyes of Shams and Rumi, readers are invited to experience love as the highest form of spiritual practice, one that calls us to be both fully human and fully connected to the infinite.

    Recommendation:
    For readers interested in spirituality, love, and personal growth, The Forty Rules of Love offers a rich, contemplative experience. Shafak’s storytelling, combined with the teachings of Shams Tabrizi, provides both entertainment and deep spiritual insight. Whether you’re a seasoned reader of Rumi’s works or new to Sufi mysticism, this novel is sure to leave a lasting impact.

    The Forty Rules of Love remains on my list for deeper exploration. I plan to engage with each of the rules more fully in the future, and this review serves as a placeholder for that deeper dive.

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  • Book Review: Forty Verses on Reality by Ramana Maharshi

    Ramana Maharshi, one of the most revered spiritual teachers of modern times, has left an indelible mark on the landscape of non-dual philosophy. Among his profound contributions is a text known as the “Forty Verses on Reality”, or “Ulladu Narpadu”, originally composed in Tamil. These verses are a deep exploration of the nature of existence and the true Self, offering guidance on the direct path to self-realization.

    The “Forty Verses on Reality” are not just poetic expressions but are a concise roadmap to understanding the essence of the Self, as taught by Ramana Maharshi. They delve into the illusion of the ego, the ultimate reality of non-dual existence, and the importance of self-inquiry as the path to realizing one’s true nature.

    In these verses, Ramana Maharshi addresses the central theme of his teachings: the illusion of the ego. He emphasizes that the sense of ‘I’—which we often associate with our thoughts, emotions, and bodily identity—is not the true Self. This ego, or false sense of individuality, creates a veil that obscures the unchanging, eternal reality that is the Self.

    Ramana encourages seekers to engage in self-inquiry, particularly through the practice of asking “Who am I?” This simple yet profound question is designed to lead one back to the source of the ‘I’ thought, tracing it to its origin in pure consciousness. It is in this inquiry that the mind begins to dissolve into the deeper awareness, where the illusory nature of the ego is revealed, and the true Self is recognized.

    The essence of these verses is the understanding that the Self is the only reality, and everything else is transient, merely an appearance in the vast expanse of consciousness. Ramana’s teaching points to the realization that the Self is beyond all dualities, beyond subject and object, beyond mind and matter. The Self is the underlying reality, the substratum upon which all experiences arise and subside.

    For those who are new to Ramana Maharshi’s teachings, the “Forty Verses on Reality” serve as a gateway to understanding his approach to non-duality and the path of self-inquiry. Each verse offers a unique insight into the nature of existence, gently guiding the reader toward a direct experience of the Self.

    Consider, for example, the first verse, where Ramana states: “If Reality did not exist, could there be any knowledge of existence? Free from all thoughts, Reality abides in the Heart, the Source of all thoughts. It is, therefore, called the Heart. How then is one to contemplate It? To be as It is in the Heart, is Its contemplation.” Here, he points to the central truth that Reality—our true nature—is beyond thought and can only be known by abiding as the Self in the Heart, the source of all thoughts.

    Or take verse twenty, where he asks: “By what light do you see? If you say ‘by the light of the sun,’ the moon, etc., then by what light do you see these lights? The light of the eye makes all these lights visible. But the mind makes the eyes shine. The ultimate source of all lights is the Self.” This verse illustrates the idea that all forms of perception ultimately point back to the Self, the pure awareness that illuminates all experiences.

    Perhaps one of the most poignant verses is verse twenty-six: “The body does not say ‘I’. The Self does not say ‘I’. Between the two, something arises, saying ‘I’. This phantom is the ego. Find out where from this arises. Then everything will subside into the Self.” Ramana succinctly captures the essence of self-inquiry here, pointing to the ego as a phantom that dissolves when one traces it back to its origin.

    The “Forty Verses on Reality” provide a rich tapestry of wisdom that can lead seekers to a direct realization of their true nature. These verses are a testament to Ramana Maharshi’s profound understanding of the non-dual reality and offer a timeless guide for those on the spiritual path.

    If you are inspired to delve deeper into these teachings, I encourage you to seek out a complete edition of these verses, where you can explore them in their entirety. Their depth and simplicity offer a powerful tool for self-inquiry and spiritual awakening.

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    Richard Clarke’s version of the “Forty Verses on Reality” is a concise and accessible entry point into Ramana Maharshi’s teachings. Spanning just 78 pages, this edition focuses on presenting the verses in a clear and straightforward manner, making it an excellent choice for those who are new to self-inquiry and non-duality. Clarke’s approach is to let the power of Ramana’s words speak for themselves, offering readers a direct and undiluted experience of the teachings.

    The version introduced by Michael James and authored by Sandra Derksen provides an in-depth exploration of the “Forty Verses on Reality”, expanding the text to 422 pages with extensive commentary and analysis. This edition delves deeply into each verse, unpacking the layers of meaning and offering a comprehensive understanding of Ramana Maharshi’s philosophy. Ideal for serious students and those with a deep interest in Advaita Vedanta, this book offers a richly detailed interpretation that guides the reader through the nuances of self-inquiry and non-dual realization.

  • Neti Neti Series No. 1: Embracing the Practice of “Not This, Not This

    Question:

    How should I approach the practice of “Neti Neti” and what can I expect as I continue with it?


    Dear friend,

    “Neti Neti” is a path that is both ancient and profound, one that requires patience, a quiet heart, and a gentle perseverance. I’d like to share with you some thoughts and reflections that may guide you as you journey further into this sacred practice.

    The phrase “Neti Neti” translates simply as “not this, not this.” It is a mantra, yes, but it is also much more than that—it is a doorway to the understanding what lies beyond the confines of our ordinary thoughts and perceptions. When we repeat “Neti Neti,” we are not merely uttering words; we are engaging in a process of negation that strips away the layers of illusion and false identification, leading us closer to the core of our being.

    You may find that as you begin your practice, thoughts arise incessantly, like waves upon the shore. This is natural, my friend, and there is no need for concern. The mind, after all, is accustomed to constant movement. But as you sit in stillness and repeat “Neti Neti,” you are training your awareness to recognize that these thoughts—however persistent they may seem—are not who you are.

    In those moments when the mind is quiet, even for a brief instant, you may feel a sense of peace, a spaciousness that is untouched by the comings and goings of thoughts and emotions. This is the silence in which your true self resides. When you touch this silence, allow yourself to rest in it. Do not seek to hold on to it too tightly, for it is like a delicate breeze—best experienced by simply being present with it.

    And yet, if thoughts begin to stir again—and they often will—there is no need to worry or to chastise yourself. Simply return to the mantra, “Neti Neti,” with the understanding that what you are negating is not just the thought itself, but the identification with it. Each time you say “not this,” you are affirming that your true self is not these fleeting mental activities but something much deeper and more enduring.

    As you continue with this practice, you may begin to notice subtle changes in your inner landscape. The mind, once so restless, may start to settle more easily. You may find that the gaps between thoughts grow wider, and the stillness within you becomes more familiar, like a dear friend who visits often. This is the beginning of a profound transformation.

    In time, my friend, you may come to a place where the need to repeat the mantra diminishes, where silence and stillness are your natural state, and where the mind rests in its true home, free from the distractions that once held it captive. This is not a state to be forced or grasped at—it will come in its own time, as you continue to practice with patience and love.

    Remember, the journey of “Neti Neti” is not about eradicating thoughts or achieving some distant goal. It is about returning, again and again, to the awareness that lies beyond all concepts and forms. It is about recognizing that you are not the thoughts that arise, nor the emotions that ebb and flow. You are the awareness in which all these things occur, and this awareness is vast, infinite, and untouched by the passing of time.

    So, dear friend, as you continue with your practice, I encourage you to approach it with gentleness and an open heart. Trust in the process, even when it feels challenging. Trust in the silence that you find within, and know that this silence is the truest reflection of who you are.

    I look forward to hearing about your experiences as you deepen in this practice. May it bring you the peace and understanding that your soul seeks.

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  • Beyond Objects: The Paradox of the Ever-Present Subject in Self-Inquiry

    In the practice of self-inquiry, particularly when meditating on questions like “Who am I?” or “What am I?”, a profound paradox often arises. The goal is not to discover another object—another thought, concept, or identity—but to realize the ever-present subject, the pure awareness that is always observing but is itself never observed. This exploration can lead to confusion as the mind, accustomed to dealing with objects, struggles to grasp something that cannot be grasped.

    The Subject and the Object

    In our daily lives, we interact with the world primarily through objects. These objects include not just physical things, but also thoughts, emotions, and even our sense of self. When we engage in self-inquiry, asking “Who am I?” or “What am I?”, the mind instinctively begins to search for an answer within the realm of objects. It looks for another label, another identity that it can understand and define. But the subject—the true Self—eludes this search because it is not an object that can be categorized or comprehended by the mind.

    The Ever-Present Subject

    The subject is the awareness that perceives all objects. It is the constant, unchanging presence that observes everything else that changes. This subject is not a “who” or a “what” because it does not belong to the realm of objects. It is the essence of our being, the ground of all experience, yet it cannot be objectified, labeled, or defined.

    The Confusion of Objectifying the Subject

    As we delve deeper into self-inquiry, confusion often arises. The mind, which is designed to understand and manipulate objects, finds itself at a loss when it tries to apply the same approach to the subject. It’s like trying to see your own eyes without a mirror—the subject cannot see itself because it is the one doing the seeing. This confusion is not a failure but an indication that the mind is approaching its own limits.

    This paradox is a critical aspect of self-inquiry. It signals the point at which the mind must cease its usual operations and simply rest in awareness. The subject, or true Self, is not to be found as an object out there, but recognized as the very awareness in which the search is taking place.

    Embracing the Paradox

    To move beyond this confusion, it’s essential to let go of the need for an intellectual answer. The question “Who am I?” or “What am I?” is not meant to yield a concept or a new identity. Instead, it serves to turn the mind back on itself, leading to the realization that you are neither a “who” nor a “what,” but the pure awareness that is aware of all things.

    The confusion that arises is a natural and necessary part of this process. It is the mind’s way of signaling that it cannot turn the subject into an object, and this realization opens the door to a deeper understanding. By allowing this confusion to be, without trying to resolve it into a tidy intellectual answer, you can begin to rest in the pure presence of awareness itself.

    Alternative Mantras for Self-Inquiry

    If the traditional self-inquiry questions “Who am I?” or “What am I?” lead to a sense of dead end or confusion, you might find it helpful to use a different approach. Here are some alternative mantras or inquiries that can help guide you toward the reality of the subject—the pure awareness that is your true nature:

    1. “I am That” (Soham or Tat Tvam Asi): This mantra emphasizes the non-dual realization that your true Self is one with the ultimate reality, Brahman. It helps dissolve the identification with the mind and body, guiding you toward unity with infinite consciousness.
    2. “I am” (Aham): Focusing on the phrase “I am” without any descriptors can tune you into the presence of pure awareness, the basic sense of existence before it becomes entangled with thoughts and identities.
    3. “Be Still and Know”: Inspired by the biblical phrase, this mantra encourages you to settle into stillness and recognize the presence of awareness, leading to a deeper understanding of your true nature.
    4. “Pure Awareness” or “Consciousness Only”: These mantras directly affirm the nature of the subject as pure awareness, allowing you to focus on the awareness in which all experiences arise and dissolve.
    5. “Not this, not that” (Neti Neti): The practice of Neti Neti involves negating all that is not the Self, guiding your awareness back to the subject—the pure, unchanging consciousness.
    6. “I Am Presence”: This mantra emphasizes the feeling of existence without attaching it to any identity or role, helping you anchor in the experience of pure being.
    7. “Silent Witness”: Focusing on “Silent Witness” helps shift your attention to the observing presence within you, reminding you that you are the silent witness to all that occurs.
    8. “Who is aware?”: If “Who am I?” feels too abstract, “Who is aware?” can be a more direct pointer, helping you realize that the awareness observing everything is not an object but the subject itself.

    Each of these mantras offers a different pathway to recognizing the ever-present subject, the awareness that is your true Self. By choosing one that resonates with you and practicing it consistently, you can deepen your understanding and experience of pure awareness.

    Conclusion: Resting in Awareness

    Meditating on “Who am I?” or “What am I?” is not about finding an object or a new identity but about recognizing the ever-present subject—the pure awareness that is your true nature. This subject is beyond all concepts of “who” or “what,” and any confusion that arises is a natural part of the mind’s journey towards self-realization.

    By embracing this paradox and resting in the awareness that is always present, you move closer to the realization of your true nature—beyond all objects, beyond all concepts, as the pure, unchanging awareness that you truly are.

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  • Self-Inquiry and Meditation: A Pathway to Inner Awareness

    In the teachings of Pravrajika Devyanandaprana, often affectionately called Swamiji, the concept of self-inquiry is central to spiritual awakening and inner peace. Swamiji emphasizes that meditation should be coupled with self-inquiry to deepen one’s understanding of the self and to transcend the limitations of the ego.

    Understanding Self-Inquiry

    Self-inquiry is a profound practice rooted in the ancient wisdom of Advaita Vedanta, a non-dualistic philosophy that encourages the seeker to question the very nature of the self. The practice is simple yet powerful: asking the question, “Who am I?” or “What am I?” Not in search of an intellectual answer, but as a means to dissolve the layers of false identification we have accumulated over a lifetime.

    The purpose of self-inquiry is to redirect the mind from its habitual outward focus and turn it inward, towards the source of all thoughts and experiences. By persistently questioning the nature of the self, the meditator begins to discern the difference between the temporary phenomena of the mind—thoughts, emotions, sensations—and the unchanging awareness that is the true Self.

    Integrating Self-Inquiry with Meditation

    Swamiji suggests that meditation should be based upon self-inquiry, meaning that the practice of meditation should not merely be a technique to calm the mind but a method to explore the depths of one’s own being. Here’s how you can integrate self-inquiry into your meditation practice:

    1. Begin with a Calm Mind: Start your meditation by focusing on your breath or a simple mantra to settle the mind. This step is crucial because a calm and focused mind is more capable of deep inquiry.
    2. Introduce the Inquiry: Once the mind is relatively calm, gently introduce the question, “Who am I?” or “What am I?” Allow the question to arise naturally, without forcing an answer. The question is a tool to peel back layers of the mind’s conditioning.
    3. Observe the Mind’s Responses: As you ask the question, notice what arises in the mind. Thoughts, memories, emotions—these are all responses from the mind trying to define the self. Recognize them, but don’t get entangled. Simply return to the question.
    4. Shift to Awareness: With each repetition of the question, notice the awareness in which these responses arise. Gradually, the focus should shift from the content of the mind to the awareness itself. This awareness is the true Self, beyond all thoughts and identities.
    5. Rest in Pure Awareness: As the mind settles into the inquiry, there will be moments where the mind is quiet, and only pure awareness remains. Rest in this state. This is the essence of self-inquiry meditation—resting in the true nature of the Self, free from the mind’s fluctuations.
    6. Return and Reflect: After your meditation session, take a few moments to reflect on the experience. Notice any shifts in your perception of yourself or the world around you. Over time, this practice of self-inquiry will lead to a more stable realization of your true nature.

    The Benefits of Self-Inquiry Meditation

    The integration of self-inquiry and meditation brings profound benefits:

    • Dissolving the Ego: By consistently questioning the nature of the self, the false identifications of the ego begin to dissolve, leading to a more authentic and liberated experience of life.
    • Increased Awareness: Self-inquiry enhances your awareness of the present moment, helping you see beyond the surface level of thoughts and emotions to the underlying reality of pure consciousness.
    • Inner Peace: As the mind turns inward and rests in its true nature, a deep sense of peace and contentment arises, independent of external circumstances.
    • Spiritual Awakening: Ultimately, self-inquiry can lead to the direct realization of the Self, or Atman, which is identical to Brahman, the universal consciousness. This realization is the essence of non-dual wisdom.

    Conclusion: A Lifelong Practice

    Self-inquiry and meditation are not just practices to be done on a meditation cushion—they are tools for living. As you continue this journey, the question “Who am I?” will permeate your daily life, leading to deeper insights and greater freedom. The practice may begin as a discipline, but over time, it becomes a natural inquiry that leads to the ultimate truth of who you really are.

    Swamiji’s guidance on combining self-inquiry with meditation offers a pathway to profound self-realization. As you walk this path, remember that patience, persistence, and an open heart are your greatest allies. The truth of your being is already within you—self-inquiry and meditation are simply the means to uncover it.

    Below is the original source video of the lecture with Swami Parvajika Devyanandaprana, from which these blog posts were inspired. Here you can explore the insightful teachings that have profoundly shaped the content and perspectives shared in this blog.

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