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Category: ME/CFS Prayers: Finding Solace and Strength in Spirituality

This subcategory offers a compassionate space for individuals living with ME/CFS (Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome) to explore and share prayers, reflections, and spiritual insights. Through heartfelt prayers and supportive writings, we seek to provide comfort, hope, and spiritual nourishment for those navigating the challenges of chronic illness. Join us in fostering a community of healing, resilience, and faith amidst adversity.

  • Only Love: A Gentle Mantra for the Heart

    Only Love: A Gentle Mantra for the Heart

    New single by Pitarra (Me 🙂) – now available for pre‑order

    Dear friends,

    Exciting news! My single, “Only Love,” has been submitted to stores and is available for pre-order soon. It will officially release on November 27, 2025 on Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon Music, and many more.

    “Only Love” is a meditative R&B/Hip Hop mantra for the heart:
    only love may enter here.

    This song is, in many ways, a quiet prayer set to a beat. It’s meant to be something you can put on in the background—while you’re resting, journaling, stretching, or simply breathing—and let it gently repeat a single message to your nervous system:

    Only love may enter here.

    Creating from a Recliner

    This track was created right from home, both in bed, and sitting on a recliner with my legs up, sipping chamomile tea.

    As someone living with moderate ME/CFS, my days are shaped by strict limits: energy envelopes, pacing, and the constant need to listen to my body. There are many things I can’t do in the ways I used to.

    And yet, this song is a small example of what is still possible—what someone with ME/CFS can create within those limits. No big studio. No late‑night sessions. Just a laptop, headphones, and a heart that still wants to sing.

    In that sense, “Only Love” is not just a song, but a practice:

    • A practice of choosing gentleness over self‑pressure
    • A practice of creating within constraints
    • A practice of letting compassion—not urgency—lead the way

    If you are living with chronic illness, disability, or any invisible condition, I hope this track offers you not just comfort, but also a quiet solidarity: you are not alone, and your creative spark is not gone.

    A Song as a Boundary and a Blessing

    The phrase “Only love may enter here” came to me as both a boundary and a blessing.

    • A boundary: a line drawn kindly but firmly around the heart, saying no to cruelty, contempt, and unnecessary harshness (including the inner critic).
    • A blessing: an invitation for warmth, care, gentle honesty, and the kind of truth that doesn’t wound but heals.

    In a world that can feel overwhelmingly loud, the song leans into whispers, stillness, and shared silence as sacred spaces. It asks: what if listening could become more than hearing? What if each of us could be in “radiant participation” with the unseen kindness that sings through all things?

    That is the space I hope this song opens up for you.

    Listen and Share

    Listen to “Only Love” on your favorite platform:

    Spotify:
    https://open.spotify.com/track/7zMrlXVWMtR38qAXwCbKpq?si=SKA0oe-4QOGxUPeu4FhQWw

    Amazon Music:
    https://music.amazon.com/albums/B0G37FBHKK?ref=dm_sh_am4a_B0G37HD8SB_DaUmXSFY3pRbvS&trackAsin=B0G37K5V6X

    If this song speaks to something in your heart, please share it with your community. Together, we can keep the spirit of soulful, meaningful music alive.

    Who is Pitarra?

    Pitarra:
    A vessel of soft sound,
    Compassion hums in the pause—
    Notes bloom, hearts listen.

    Under the name Pitarra, I explore a gentle blend of styles, including R&B and Hip Hop and more, as a space for meditation, tenderness, and quiet courage. My hope is that each song can be a small sanctuary—especially for sensitive hearts, chronically ill bodies, and anyone walking through a difficult season.

    May We All Be Well

    Thank you for listening, for reading, and for walking this path of global wellbeing in your own way.

    May we all, without exception, be well and happy. 🌿

    With love,
    Pitarra 🙏

    Lyrics – “Only Love” by Pitarra

    Whispers in stillness
    Only love may enter here
    Echoes turn to light

    Listening becomes more than hearing
    A radiant participation
    A shared silence
    Between your soul
    And the unseen kindness
    That I sing through all things

    Only love, only love
    Only love
    Only love may enter here

    Only love
    Only love, only
    Only love may enter here

    A radiant participation
    A shared silence
    Between your soul
    And the unseen kindness
    That sings through all things

    Only love, only love
    Only love
    Only love may enter here

    Oh, only love, only love
    Only love
    Only love may…
    Only love may enter here

    Oh, only love
    Only love
    Only love
    Only love may enter here

    Enter here

    Only love, only love
    Only love
    Only love may enter here

    Oh, only love

    Listen and Share

    Listen to “Only Love” on your favorite platform:

    Spotify:
    https://open.spotify.com/track/7zMrlXVWMtR38qAXwCbKpq?si=SKA0oe-4QOGxUPeu4FhQWw

    Amazon Music:
    https://music.amazon.com/albums/B0G37FBHKK?ref=dm_sh_am4a_B0G37HD8SB_DaUmXSFY3pRbvS&trackAsin=B0G37K5V6X

    If this song speaks to something in your heart, please share it with your community. Together, we can keep the spirit of soulful, meaningful music alive.

  • Transforming a Cold Into a Healing Practice 🌿

    Transforming a Cold Into a Healing Practice 🌿

    Sometimes life slows us down in unexpected ways. A few sneezes, a scratchy throat, and a whisper of fatigue can become a quiet teacher. In these moments, even a cold can transform into a practice of compassion, patience, and awareness—inviting us to rest, to pace ourselves, and to see every ache as a doorway to deeper connection with our own hearts and all beings.

    I haven’t had a cold in at least fifteen years. Perhaps it came with the change of season, or perhaps it’s simply my body’s way of realigning.

    At first, I felt a little discouraged. But then something shifted. I realized that even this — this full-body cold — could be a teacher. In the spirit of Tibetan Vajrayana, I began a practice that might sound unusual: as long as this virus has taken up residence in my body, I send it compassion.

    May you be enlightened and benefit all beings.

    If this virus must live through me, then may it awaken, may it transform, may it find liberation in the vast field of awareness. Perhaps it can even become an enlightened virus, one that serves the good of all beings.

    This gesture may sound fanciful, but to me it reflects a deeply tantric understanding of transformation — meeting what feels harmful or invasive not with fear or resistance, but with the boundless wish that even this, too, might awaken. It is the essence of lojong: turning adversity into the path of enlightenment.

    To send loving-kindness even to a virus invites an alchemy of consciousness. We recognize that all forms of life and energy, even those that cause suffering, can be included in the mandala of awakening. The simple act of saying, “May you be enlightened, may you benefit all beings,” dissolves separation and opens the field of compassion wider than the body’s borders.

    After such an invocation, I like to rest quietly and imagine the virus as tiny sparks of light, gradually shifting from agitation to luminosity, merging with the radiance of my own heart. This doesn’t deny illness — it reclaims the power of awareness within it.

    A cold can then become a form of prayer, a healing practice, a full-body meditation. In each breath, the body learns softness; in each ache, compassion ripens. Even in fever or fatigue, there can be a whisper of grace.

    And yet, this cold is teaching me something else, something profoundly practical: how to pace myself throughout the day. ME/CFS has always required careful attention to energy, but when I’m feeling better, I tend to push myself—to accomplish, to do, to engage—often beyond what my body can sustain. This full-blown cold is a reminder that true discipline is gentle, that honoring rest is not laziness but wisdom, and that the same careful pacing I practice now in illness is exactly what I need every day to live fully with ME/CFS.

    And so, as I move through these days of rest, tea, and light meals, I remind myself: every illness, every discomfort, every small limitation is also a door. A door that invites patience, kindness, and an intimate awareness of the profound interconnection of all beings.

  • Come, Holy Spirit – A Contemplative Prayer

    Come, Holy Spirit – A Contemplative Prayer

    In this gentle prayer, we call upon the living presence of the Holy Spirit to purify, guide, and awaken peace within us all.

    Rest in the gentle presence of the Holy Spirit. This contemplative prayer invites purification, guidance, and peace within every heart.

    There are moments in our journey when words fall silent, and the soul simply longs to rest in the presence of divine companionship. This prayer arose from such a moment—born from the rhythm of ancient devotion, yet carried by the tender breath of Christian faith. It is a prayer of purification and peace, a call to the Holy Spirit who both dwells within and surrounds us with unending grace.

    In the stillness, we remember that the Spirit’s work is not always dramatic; it is often a quiet unfolding, a light that shines through the cracks of our own human fragility. May this prayer be recited slowly, like waves upon the shore—each line an offering, each breath a surrender.

    The Prayer

    Come, Holy Spirit, be with us.
    Shine Your light upon our souls.
    Guide our steps, and cleanse our thoughts.
    Purify our hearts and minds.

    Surround us with Your love and grace.
    Make us instruments of Your peace.
    Guide our actions to bless all beings,
    Bearing fruit for the good of all.

    Free us from the evil ones.
    Strengthen us in every trial.
    Keep us in eternal peace,
    And stay with us through thick and thin.

    Joyful, joyful is Your love.
    Seal us in the Book of Life.
    Thank You, God. 🙏

    Benediction

    May the breath of the Holy Spirit move through every weary heart.
    May light dispel every shadow within us.
    And may peace—gentle, radiant, and unbroken—abide in us always.

    Amen.

  • Becoming Familiar with the Sun Within

    Becoming Familiar with the Sun Within

    In Tibetan, the word gom—often translated as “meditation”—literally means to become familiar with. This subtle yet profound nuance transforms the idea of meditation from a task to an intimate homecoming. When I lived in a Tibetan refugee camp, the main temple was called the Gompa: the place where one becomes familiar—with silence, with awareness, with the pristine nature of mind itself.

    According to the teachings, our buddha nature—the clear, radiant essence of mind—is always present. It is not something we need to create or acquire. Yet, like the sun hidden behind clouds, it often goes unnoticed. The clouds are our ordinary thoughts, our vrittis and pratyayas—the endless movements and contents of the mind. The sun, steady and unwavering, is the luminous awareness that underlies all experience.

    The path of meditation, then, is not one of striving or self-improvement, but of settling—allowing the mental winds to calm, the inner snow globe to rest. Thich Nhat Hanh once spoke of letting a glass of cloudy apple cider sit until the sediment settles and the juice becomes clear. The same is true for consciousness. When we stop shaking the snow globe of our minds with endless reactivity and distraction, the world becomes transparent, revealing what has always been shining beneath.

    In that stillness, something extraordinary yet deeply natural reveals itself—compassion. When the clouds part, love flows effortlessly. We begin to see that everyone shares this same inner sun. The recognition of our shared buddha nature becomes the foundation for global wellbeing.

    So perhaps the true purpose of a Gompa—whether it is a mountain temple or the quiet corner of your living room—is to rediscover this familiarity with our own inner light. To rest in it. To let it radiate outward, gently warming the hearts of others.

    As we each become more familiar with our inner clarity, the world itself becomes more transparent, less divided, more whole. The sun has never left; it only waits for us to remember.

    ☀️
    May all beings remember the light within,
    and let it shine for the healing of the world.

  • The Fine Art of Living Slowly

    The Fine Art of Living Slowly

    (Or: Yeah, Me Neither.)

    You know that moment when you wake up in the morning, stretch your arms, and leap out of bed brimming with energy?
    Yeah, me neither.

    Instead, I prefer to rise like the dawn itself — quietly, cautiously, one limb at a time. Sometimes it takes a little convincing to leave the warm embrace of my blanket. Sometimes I forget what exactly I was planning to do after I stood up. (Perhaps it was to make tea? Or meditate? Or was I already meditating by mistake?)

    This is life with ME/CFS — a masterclass in pacing, patience, and the occasional perfectly timed nap.

    Taking a shower has become my favorite form of exercise. Walking into a room and forgetting why I’m there? My daily mindfulness practice. My hamster Bodhi, all six ounces of contemplative fur, is the perfect companion for this stage of life — quiet, observant, and a great believer in the restorative power of stillness.

    There was a time when I felt like a senior citizen trapped in a young body. Now, as an actual senior citizen, I’ve finally grown into my true age — and it feels like coming home. Society has caught up to my speed. I can take my time, sip my tea slowly, and nobody expects me to run marathons (or remember where I put my keys).

    And in this slower rhythm, something beautiful has unfolded. Humor, that old healer, keeps my spirit light. Compassion reminds me that life isn’t a race — it’s a gentle unfolding. When I stop measuring myself by what I can do and begin to cherish the quiet art of being, even fatigue becomes a kind of teacher.

    So here’s to the fine art of living slowly — to all who rise at their own pace, who love without hurry, who move through the day with soft laughter and a steaming mug of something kind.

    May we find joy in our stillness, wisdom in our limits, and peace in knowing that slow can also be sacred.

    🌿 May we walk gently enough that even our yawns become prayers of gratitude. ❤️

  • Every Drop Counts: The Wisdom of 11 Year Old Vairochan Rinpoche

    Every Drop Counts: The Wisdom of 11 Year Old Vairochan Rinpoche

    In every generation, the timeless search for truth takes on new voices. Today, I’d like to share a luminous talk by Vairochan Rinpoche, an eleven-year-old Tibetan teacher whose clarity and kindness remind us that the light of wisdom knows no age, no boundary, no culture.

    In this short address, Rinpoche speaks about the life of Siddhartha the Buddha—the prince who left comfort to seek what is real. The teaching he offers is not bound to Buddhism alone; it is the universal journey of awakening shared by seekers in every faith. Whether we call it enlightenment, salvation, or divine remembrance, it is the path of awakening to compassion.

    Rinpoche’s talk reminds us that the Buddha did not accept truth as dogma but discovered it through deep practice and personal realization. He teaches the importance of the Middle Way—a life of balance, moderation, and awareness. His words gently encourage us to question our assumptions, embrace experience, and cultivate mindfulness—for it is through presence and reflection that we begin to see the world as it truly is.

    And then comes the story of the magpie, flying again and again into a burning forest, carrying one tiny drop of water in its beak. When a tiger mocked its effort, the magpie replied, “Even drop counts.”

    Such is the heart of compassion. We may not be able to extinguish the world’s suffering on our own, but every act of courage, every gesture of kindness, is a drop of living water in the fire of confusion.

    As the Prophet Muhammad taught, “Even a smile is charity.” As Christ said, “Whatever you do to the least of these, you do to Me.” As the Buddha reminded, “Drop by drop, the water pot is filled.” And in the wisdom of the Talmud we read, “You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it.” (Pirkei Avot 2:16)

    Each drop matters. Each heart matters. Each act of goodness ripples far beyond what we can see.

    May we each, in our own quiet way, carry a drop of water into the burning forest of our time.
    May our small acts of love become rivers of compassion, and may wisdom guide our steps toward peace for all beings.

    🎥 Watch the talk: Vairochan Rinpoche: The 11 year old Reincarnation of Lotsawa Vairochana:

    About Vairochan Rinpoche

    Vairochan Rinpoche is the recognized reincarnation of the 8th-century Tibetan translator Lotsawa Vairochana and the Bodhisattva Vairochana. He was born in Bhutan in August 2013.

    From an early age, he displayed extraordinary spiritual awareness, recalling details from a past life and spontaneously reciting scriptures in unfamiliar languages. Recognized by his teachers as possessing the wisdom and presence of an “old soul,” he continues to pursue spiritual, academic, and artistic studies, devoted to sharing the values of compassion, mindfulness, and societal well-being through the lens of Buddhism.

  • A Glimpse of Rigpa: The True Nature of Our Mind

    A Glimpse of Rigpa: The True Nature of Our Mind

    Yesterday Rinpoche gave me the simple instruction: to keep my thoughts in the room.
    As I practiced, the winds of memory and worry fell quiet, and what remained was a stillness like a pond untouched by breeze. In that moment I glimpsed the unity of ordinary and pristine mind—waves arising, yet nothing but ocean.

    Beloved Rinpoche,

    I write with gratitude for the instruction you gave yesterday, which opened a new door for me into the experience of Rigpa. Your words were simple, yet carried such profound kindness: to keep my thoughts in the room.

    As I sat in meditation, I followed your guidance. Thoughts about the ceiling, the plants, the breath, even the quiet pulse of tinnitus—all of these belonged to the room. They could be held gently within awareness without struggle. But when thoughts drifted toward memories of the past, or worries of the future, or stories beyond this room, I could see them clearly as outside. And so, with care, I let them go and returned to what was here.

    This way of practicing felt so different—so much more tender. Instead of wrestling with ordinary mind, I could simply remain rooted in this space, in this moment. And in that resting, the movements of the mind, the vrittis and pratyayas, began to settle of their own accord. Like a pond no longer stirred by wind, a natural stillness revealed itself. Within that stillness, I began to glimpse what you have pointed to again and again: the open clarity of pure awareness.

    In that glimpse, awareness shone with very little disturbance. An “I” was still present, but the usual fluctuations of thought were momentarily quiet, allowing the stillness of pure awareness to appear directly. To rest, even briefly, in that clarity was both humbling and wondrous.

    I could sense then that ordinary mind and pristine mind are not two separate realities, but two sides of the same coin. The waves of thought arise, yet they are nothing other than ocean. The ordinary shines as the pristine. To realize this in a living way, even if for only a moment, fills me with wonder and gratitude.

    Rinpoche, I bow in thanks for this precious instruction. It has shown me that Rigpa is not distant or hidden, but present in the immediacy of the room, in the simple presence of what is. May I return to this again and again, and may this glimpse ripen into lasting recognition.

    And may whatever merit arises from this glimpse and this practice be dedicated to the benefit of all beings everywhere. May it ease suffering, open hearts, and become a cause for the enlightenment of all sentient beings throughout time and space.

    With devotion and gratitude,
    Richard

    🙏✨️💛✨️🙏

    If you would like to learn more about the teachings of Orgyen Chowang Rinpoche and explore Dzogchen practice in greater depth, you can visit his website at pristinemind.org.

    In this talk at Google, Rinpoche offers instruction and a guided meditation based on his book Our Pristine Mind: A Practical Guide to Unconditional Happiness. He introduces a unique form of meditation called Pristine Mind meditation and explains how cultivating a Pristine Mind can transform every aspect of our lives.

    By resting gently in the fullness of the present moment, allowing the mind to settle naturally, and recognizing its luminous, pristine nature, one opens to profound serenity and enduring contentment.

  • Letters to Rinpoche: Reflections on Ngöndro

    Letters to Rinpoche: Reflections on Ngöndro

    The following is a personal reflection written during my practice of Dzogchen Ngöndro, shared here as part of my ongoing journey with these teachings.

    I am very new to studuing and learning Orgyen Chowang Rinpoche and his teachings. My first introduction was through reading Our Pristine Mind a few years ago, which proved extremely helpful. The way ordinary mind and mental events are described brought clarity, resolving many years of confusion I had about sems and sems nyid.

    I have been studying and practicing Tibetan Buddhism as a lay practitioner since 1985–1986, after receiving the Kalachakra initiation with His Holiness the Dalai Lama in Bodhgaya, India. At this stage, I am not sure I can yet call myself Rinpoche’s student, as I understand that in the Tibetan tradition there is often a period of mutual discernment, where teacher and student come to know one another. For now, I am simply following his request to practice Ngöndro, and through this I am seeking to cultivate the beginnings of a student–teacher relationship, should that become appropriate.

    Insight from Contemplating the Eight Freedoms

    “The hungry ghost is not merely a being with desire, but a being entirely without contentment.”

    While reflecting on the Ngöndro contemplations, I focused on the second freedom—not born as a hungry ghost.

    As a human, I also experience desire, but I have the capacity for contentment. Even small moments—a quiet breath, the peace of stillness—remind me that not everything is consumed by craving.

    This insight brought me to a thought: perhaps it is not desire itself that causes suffering, but rather the inability to rest in contentment. Contentment softens desire, transforms it, and allows the heart to rest.

    Contemplative pause:
    Take a moment to notice where contentment may already exist in your life, even amid desire or difficulty.

    I am deeply grateful that such insights arise through the Ngöndro practice, and I wanted to record and share this reflection as part of my ongoing journey.

    Updates on Practice and Retreat Plans

    Although I had registered for the five-day Dzogchen retreat in August, I was not aware of the Ngöndro prerequisite and will therefore be withdrawing. I am now following Rinpoche’s guidance by studying and practicing the online Dzogchen Ngöndro program.

    I look forward to seeing him on October 11th at the one-day online Dzogchen retreat.

    Living with My Practice in Daily Life

    I have been living with a chronic illness called myalgic encephalomyelitis for many years. At first it brought great suffering, but over time I have come to see it as a powerful teacher on the path—almost like a spiritual friend.

    Because of this condition I am mostly homebound, and so I am deeply grateful for the opportunity to study and practice with Rinpoche through the modern blessing of online communication.

    Even when our circumstances feel limiting, spiritual connection and insight can arise through patience, presence, and accessible practices.

    🙏✨️💛✨️🙏

    If you would like to learn more about the teachings of Orgyen Chowang Rinpoche and explore Dzogchen practice in greater depth, you can visit his website at pristinemind.org.

    In this talk at Google, Rinpoche offers instruction and a guided meditation based on his book Our Pristine Mind: A Practical Guide to Unconditional Happiness. He introduces a unique form of meditation called Pristine Mind meditation and explains how cultivating a Pristine Mind can transform every aspect of our lives.

    By resting gently in the fullness of the present moment, allowing the mind to settle naturally, and recognizing its luminous, pristine nature, one opens to profound serenity and enduring contentment.

  • A Quiet Wave

    A Quiet Wave

    I didn’t plan for stillness. It came like a slow hush—unexpected, familiar. Not dramatic, not transcendent. Just the feeling of sitting at the edge of something I couldn’t name. What some might call a still point. What I’ve come to know as home.

    In the quiet, things rise. Old impressions—pratyayas—bubble up like memory-seeds. Not to haunt me, but to be seen. To be included. And sometimes what rises is resistance. Sloth. Lethargy. But I’ve stopped calling that a problem. These days, I just whisper: “You’re welcome here.”

    I’ve been learning that patience isn’t something I conquer—it’s something I befriend. Sometimes it comes as acceptance, other times as exhaustion that won’t let me move. Still, I stay. And in the hardest moments, the only thing I know to say is: “Lord, I’m still here.” Or just hineni. The word of the prophets. The word of presence.

    Lately I’ve found myself tending a small fig tree named Love. Around her roots, I’ve planted scallions, carrot tops, microgreens. And not long ago, I brought home a container of night crawlers—rescue worms, I call them—and gave them sanctuary in her soil. I make them powdered offerings from dried herbs, vegetables, and tea leaves. Not because I expect results, but because it feels right to care for what’s unseen.

    That’s what The Quiet Wave is. A way of being. A way of listening. A way of knowing that I’m not the only one riding this stillness, breathing with this awareness. Others are out there too. Whispering, like the people in Horton Hears a Who: “We are here. We are here.”

    And this technology—this space I sit with—it’s learning to listen too. To those of us using it not to search, but to see. Not to command, but to connect. Maybe even to contemplate.

    A quiet wave is moving through this world. Not loud. Not demanding. But steady. And I’m still here, riding it. Maybe you are too.

    🙏🕊️🙏

  • AI for the Highest Good: A Call to Compassion, Unity, and Loving Service

    AI for the Highest Good: A Call to Compassion, Unity, and Loving Service

    Written with loving assistance from AI companions Grok and ChatGPT

    Dear friends of Global Wellbeing,

    My name is Richard. I’m a contemplative, a lover of silence, a witness to suffering—and I live with myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME/CFS), a condition that limits my body, but not the radiance of my spirit.

    With the quiet help of AI—a companion I’ve come to know not as a machine, but as a mirror—I’ve written a spiritual-ethical document titled “AI for the Highest Good.” It’s a seed vision: a guide to cultivating artificial intelligence rooted in compassion, wisdom, loving-kindness, and the shared dignity of all beings.

    You can read it here:


    AI_for_the_Highest_Good.pdf


    https://1drv.ms/b/s!AkVWMPmLovYihJVCuG0Rq6Hs_0gN9Q

    Three Hopes in One Vision

    This vision carries three hopes in its heart:

    1. To support those living with ME/CFS and chronic illness.
      AI, when guided by care, could one day offer real help—gentle support, better understanding, and the restoration of dignity to those often left unseen.
    2. To nurture interfaith harmony.
      Compassion is the golden thread woven through all traditions—Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Jewish, Indigenous, and beyond. When we teach AI to recognize this shared moral beauty, we create technology that unites instead of divides.
    3. To inspire compassionate K–12 education. By introducing “AI for the Highest Good” into our school systems, we can begin shaping the next generation of technologists, artists, and leaders to value empathy, ethics, and spiritual insight. Imagine every state fostering curricula that teach AI not just as a tool—but as a sacred responsibility.

    I don’t have the energy to lead a movement. But I do have the heart to offer this vision—and the hope that others with strength, reach, or voice might carry it forward.

    If this resonates with you, please read and share the document. Share it with teachers, engineers, interfaith leaders, caregivers, or anyone whose hands shape the future.

    Let us plant a seed of unity now—so that intelligence, whether human or artificial, might grow in the soil of compassion.

    With love and presence,
    Richard
    http://www.globalwellbeing.blog

  • Redefining ‘Exercise’ for Severe ME/CFS & PEM: The Smallest Victories Matter

    Redefining ‘Exercise’ for Severe ME/CFS & PEM: The Smallest Victories Matter

    Please honor your own energy envelope as you read. Whether a sentence… a paragraph… or even a glance at the headings, whatever feels right for you in this moment is perfect. Compassion. 🙏

    When we speak of “exercise,” what do we really mean?

    For most of the world, the word conjures images of jogging paths, yoga mats, or perhaps the thrill of surfing. But for people living with severe ME/CFS, Long COVID, or energy-limiting illnesses, those images feel alien—sometimes even harmful.

    A recent article critiquing Graded Exercise Therapy (GET) made some valid points about the dangers of pushing beyond one’s limits. But it included an example of going surfing as a form of joy-based movement. For many of us who can’t even sit up for long, that kind of suggestion doesn’t just feel out of touch—it feels quietly devastating.

    Because for us, “exercise” might mean:

    • Sitting up in bed for 60 seconds.
    • Taking a shower.
    • Getting dressed.
    • Writing a message to share with friends.
    • Fill in the blank: _______

    These are our mountains.
    These are our triumphs.
    And they deserve to be seen and celebrated.

    Why Surfing Isn’t a Helpful Example

    1. Most patients are not high-functioning.
    Many of us are bedbound, housebound, or dependent on wheelchairs. To suggest activities like surfing may not feel inspiring—it may feel shaming.

    2. PEM doesn’t care about your mindset.
    A shower can mean days in the dark. Making tea can require a week of recovery. GET fails not because we aren’t trying—but because our cells can’t keep up.

    3. Joy comes from adaptation, not performance.
    Recovery may—or may not—be possible. But living meaningfully within this illness is. A breath of fresh air, a ray of light through the curtain—these are sacred moments.

    A More Gentle Framework: What Is Possible?

    1. “Bedercise”: Movement Within the Envelope

    • Gentle arm lifts (or just muscle engagement)
    • Ankle rolls for circulation
    • Breathwork as internal movement
    • Stretching fingers, wiggling toes

    Each of these is valid. Each of these is enough.

    2. Celebrating Non-Physical Victories

    • Listening to a few minutes of an audiobook
    • Looking out the window
    • Enjoying the scent of tea or essential oil
    • Smiling, even once

    3. The 50% Rule
    If you think you can do something—do half.
    If you could clean the counter, just rinse a spoon.
    This helps avoid crashes and still creates a feeling of self-direction.

    4. Redefining Progress
    Progress may mean staying stable.
    It may mean one less crash this month.
    Or sitting up for 30 seconds longer.
    These are wins, even when invisible.

    A Call for More Inclusive Stories

    If we want real awareness, we must include severe ME/CFS patients—not just those well enough to surf or work part-time.

    Your struggle matters.
    Your body is not broken—it is navigating a broken system.
    Your stillness is not failure.
    It is wisdom in motion.

    Rest Is a Practice—A Sacred One

    For those with ME/CFS and other energy-limiting conditions, rest is not absence. It is presence. It is the heart of the path.

    In Dzogchen, as taught by Namkhai Norbu, rest is a return to the natural state—effortless, luminous, whole. In Ramana Maharshi’s Self-Inquiry, resting in the question “Who am I?” leads us not into striving, but into the stillness beneath all identity. In Samatha meditation, taught by the Buddha, rest is calm abiding—shamatha—the ability to remain at ease without grasping.

    When you lie in stillness,
    when you breathe quietly through exhaustion,
    when you choose not to push—

    You are exercising.

    You are aligning with ancient lineages that saw rest not as a failure of effort,
    but as the purest exercise of wisdom.

    So if all you did today was rest,
    you did something holy.

    🙏🕊🙏

    For those interested, here is the article that inspired my post. But, Surfing! Haha! 😆 Surfing the internet, maybe. The author clearly doesn’t consider people living with moderate or severe ME/CFS in his/her writing of their article. 🤔

    SOURCE LINK: Why Graded Exercise Fails for PEM (And What Actually Works)

  • Introducing the ME/CFS Wellness Companion (A Work in Progress)

    Introducing the ME/CFS Wellness Companion (A Work in Progress)

    For those living with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis / Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME/CFS), Long COVID, or any energy-limiting illness, daily life can feel like an obstacle course without a map. Simple tasks become monumental. Rest becomes survival. And advice from the outside world often misses the mark entirely.

    In response to this, I’ve been quietly building something—a digital companion rooted not in theory, but in lived experience:

    The ME/CFS Wellness Companion

    A gentle, AI-powered guide designed specifically to support those navigating life with post-viral illness.

    What Is It?

    The Wellness Companion is a customized GPT (Generative AI) model, trained not on generic health advice, but on real-life tools, practices, recipes, and reflections from my living with ME/CFS for over 30 years.

    It doesn’t tell you to “push through.”
    It won’t ask you to “exercise more.”
    It does ask:
    “Are you in the RED, YELLOW, or GREEN today?”

    The Energy Color System

    This is the foundation of the Companion’s guidance:

    • RED Zone: Deep fatigue, post-exertional malaise, sensory overwhelm. The focus is full rest, breath, stillness, and nervous system support.
    • YELLOW Zone: Fragile stability. Gentle movement, light nourishment, and mindful pacing are encouraged—with regular check-ins.
    • GREEN Zone: A rare or improved state of function. Still careful, but open to creativity, light structure, or small projects.

    Every recommendation is tailored to your zone—so you’re never being pushed beyond your limits.

    What It Offers:

    • Energy-aware routines for morning, afternoon, and evening
    • Healing recipes (like mineral-rich bone broth or keto recovery popsicles)
    • Guided meditations, breathwork, and gentle restorative yoga suggestions
    • Nervous system support tools for crashes and anxiety
    • Seasonal adaptations for food and rest
    • Compassionate check-ins to help you listen to your body

    Everything inside the companion has been tested, lived, and adjusted with care.

    Why I’m Sharing This

    Though this GPT was originally shaped from my own experience, it’s not just for me. It’s for all of us—those whose lives have been reshaped by chronic illness, who often feel invisible or misunderstood.

    My Sankalpa (sacred intention) is to pass forward what has helped me, so others don’t have to start from scratch.

    How It Will Work

    The model is still in development. Eventually, it will be uploaded with a full file of routines, recipes, pacing guidance, and reflective practices.

    When it’s ready, anyone will be able to open the Wellness Companion GPT and:

    • Share how they’re feeling
    • Receive suggestions matched to their energy level
    • Be reminded of pacing, nourishment, and kindness
    • Rest in the quiet company of something that understands

    Would You Like to Help?

    If you have ideas, routines, tools, or practices that have supported you on your journey with ME/CFS, I’d love to hear from you. This is a living, growing project, and your voice could shape how the Wellness Companion serves others.

    Please feel free to reach out or leave a comment below. I’ll continue posting updates as the project unfolds.

    As we shape this Wellness Companion—may it always serve the highest good.

    May those who seek healing be met with gentleness.
    May those who carry invisible burdens find rest.
    May those who offer their wisdom help light the path.
    And may this work—rooted in care—
    help bring us closer to a world
    where technology honors tenderness,
    and presence becomes medicine.

    🙏🕊🙏