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  • Neti Neti #19: Beyond the Desire for Fulfillment and Peace

    Question:

    Paramahansa Yogananda said, ‘Through meditation and devotion, one can experience the presence of God within and lead a life of greater fulfillment and peace.’ At this point in my life, I know these words are true, but the practice of Neti Neti seems even more aligned with my path. It guides me away from distractions, including the desire for fulfillment and peace. These desires, though natural expressions of ego relaxation and pristine mind, can become subtle traps if they turn into goals. How do I reconcile the pursuit of fulfillment and peace with the deeper realization of Neti Neti, which reminds me to let go of even these desires?

    Dear Friend,

    It is a significant realization, this understanding that even the desire for fulfillment and peace can become a subtle trap on the spiritual path. While these states are indeed natural expressions of the relaxation of the ego and the emergence of pristine mind, they must also be met with the same gentle discernment that you apply to all other experiences: Neti, Neti—Not this, not this.

    Desire, in its many forms, has a way of entangling the mind, even when it appears in the guise of something noble or spiritual. The longing for fulfillment, the yearning for peace—these are desires that arise naturally as the ego begins to loosen its grip, as the I-sense starts to dissolve into the vastness of pure awareness. And yet, as you have so wisely recognized, even these desires can become obstacles if they are held too tightly, if they become goals in themselves.

    In this, there is a subtlety that must be navigated with care. The experience of fulfillment and peace is not to be rejected, but neither is it to be grasped. It is to be allowed, to be noticed, and then gently set aside, with the understanding that even these are not the ultimate truth.

    Neti, Neti guides us beyond all that can be named, all that can be desired. It takes us to the very edge of the known, and then, with infinite patience, it takes us further still, into the unknown, into the formless, into the pure awareness that is beyond all seeking. In this place, there is no fulfillment to be attained, no peace to be grasped—because there is no one left to attain or grasp anything. There is only what is, in its simplest, most profound expression.

    This practice is not about rejecting fulfillment or peace, but about seeing them for what they are—temporary states that arise and pass, like clouds in the sky. They are beautiful, they are welcome, but they are not the sky itself. The sky, the vast expanse of pristine mind, remains untouched by the passing of these clouds, just as your true self remains untouched by the ebb and flow of experience.

    In letting go of even the desire for peace and fulfillment, you open yourself to the deeper truth that lies beyond all conditions, beyond all states. You allow yourself to rest in the simple awareness of being, in the silence that is always here, beneath the noise of the mind. This is the ultimate freedom—not the attainment of any particular state, but the realization that you are already that which you seek.

    Neti, Neti—Not this, not this. It is the gentle, persistent reminder that the truth is beyond all concepts, beyond all desires, beyond all states of being. It is the invitation to let go, to surrender, and to rest in the unconditioned awareness that is your true nature.

    Continue with this practice, dear friend, knowing that it is guiding you ever closer to the heart of truth. Let the desires arise and pass as they will, without clinging to them, without rejecting them—simply noticing, and then softly whispering, “Not this, not this.” In this way, you will find a peace that is not sought, a fulfillment that is not attained, but simply is.

    🙏🕊️🙏

  • Teachings of Jesus: Reclaiming the Inclusive Message of Christ

    Teachings of Jesus: Reclaiming the Inclusive Message of Christ

    It is said that Jesus once spoke of a way, a truth, a life so profound that it encompassed the very heart of God. “I am the way, and the truth, and the life,” he told his followers. “No one comes to the Father except through me.” These words, layered with mystery and spoken from love, have carried through centuries. And yet, how often they have been misunderstood, repurposed into boundaries rather than bridges, wielded as walls instead of the doors they were meant to open.

    There is a kind of longing in his words—a deep invitation to move beyond the illusions of separation, to find the divine not outside ourselves, but within, as Jesus himself had done. In Jesus’ teaching, this “way” was not a narrow path limited to a chosen few. It was a state of being, a way of love so expansive that it could hold the world. His life was a testament to living in union with the divine, a living call to embody forgiveness, humility, compassion, and boundless love.

    But history, with its tendency to divide, layered his words with exclusivity. Over time, these teachings became more rigid, turning a universal invitation into something that seemed fixed and exclusive. Jesus’ invitation to “follow me” became a doctrine that built walls, casting out rather than gathering in. And yet, if we listen closely, we can hear in his words the open-hearted wisdom of a mystic, inviting everyone to walk the path of inner transformation.

    Imagine Jesus not as a gatekeeper, but as a guide. His invitation was not a declaration of exclusivity, but a call to realize that same divine life he had found—to awaken to the “I am” within each of us, the unifying spirit that he embodied. In this light, Jesus’ teachings stand alongside those of the Buddha, of Krishna, of all those who point to the divine presence within. His “way” is the way of being itself, the universal path of transcending the self, of living from a heart unburdened by the ego’s needs.

    To reclaim the inclusivity of Jesus’ message is to see that he points to a God who is not bound by labels or affiliations, a God who resides in each of us. In this understanding, his words are not a barrier but a bridge, a call to see divinity reflected in every soul, beyond all boundaries of religion or creed. His “way” becomes not the only way but a path that opens us to the vastness of God, a way that invites all, through love, to come home.

    🙏🕊️🙏

  • Neti Neti Series No. 11: The Ego’s Journey Towards Mirroring the Pristine Mind

    Neti Neti Series No. 11: The Ego’s Journey Towards Mirroring the Pristine Mind

    Question:

    Is it true that the I-sense, or ego, will never actually experience the pristine mind, since the I-sense doesn’t exist in that state? And, can spiritual practice bring the ordinary mind and ego closer to mirroring the pristine mind, even if they can never fully experience it directly?

    Dear friend,

    You have touched upon a profound and subtle truth in your reflection—the realization that the “I-sense,” the very sense of being a separate self, will never directly experience the pristine mind, for in the pristine mind, there is no “I” to experience anything at all.

    The “I-sense,” as you have observed, is the part of us that identifies with the individual self—with the body, the mind, the personality. It is the ego, the center of our personal world, through which we navigate the dualities of life—self and other, subject and object, right and wrong. This “I-sense” is deeply embedded in the fabric of our everyday experience, always seeking, always striving to maintain its sense of identity.

    And yet, beyond this “I-sense” lies the pristine mind, a state of pure, unconditioned awareness. In this state, there is no separation, no duality, no “I” that stands apart from the whole. The pristine mind is simply being itself, free from all concepts, all identifications. It is the ground of all existence, the true nature of consciousness that underlies every thought, every sensation, every experience.

    As you so rightly observed, the “I-sense” cannot directly experience the pristine mind because the very presence of an “I” implies duality, and in the pristine mind, there is no duality. The ego, by its very nature, is a construct that stands apart, that defines itself in relation to others. To dissolve into the pristine mind is to let go of this sense of separateness, to merge with the whole in a state of pure being.

    Yet, there is a way in which the ordinary mind, the ego, can approach this state, can come to reflect it as closely as possible. Through spiritual practice, the mind becomes refined, quieted, and purified. Meditation, mantra, mindfulness—all of these practices serve to soften the boundaries of the “I-sense,” to still the constant movement of thought and identification.

    In this stillness, the mind begins to mirror the qualities of the pristine mind—peace, clarity, non-attachment. While the ego may never directly experience the pristine mind, it can come to a place where it reflects this deeper reality, where the sense of separation diminishes, and the boundaries of the self become porous, transparent.

    It is in these moments, dear friend, that you may catch a glimpse of the truth that lies beyond the “I,” a truth that cannot be grasped or held, but only reflected in the clear, quiet mind. Continue with your practice, allowing it to guide you ever closer to this state of reflection, where the ordinary mind becomes a mirror for the pristine mind, and the boundaries of the self dissolve into the whole.

    🙏🕊️🙏



  • Understanding Christian Prayer: The Essence of Connection with God

    Trust, Unity, and Divine Communion

    Introduction

    In Matthew 6:7-8, Jesus teaches us about prayer, emphasizing that God knows our needs before we even ask. This teaching seems to contrast with the traditional practice of specific intercessory prayers. However, by exploring the true purpose of prayer, we can see that Jesus’ guidance is not about denying the value of prayer for others, but about deepening our connection with God, transcending the ego, and fostering trust in God’s will.

    Jesus’ Teaching on Prayer

    Jesus advises against vain repetitions, encouraging us to avoid babbling like pagans. Instead, he gives us the Our Father prayer, a model of simplicity and heartfelt communication with God:

    “Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.”

    This prayer encapsulates the essence of trust and unity with God, without focusing on specific requests.

    The True Purpose of Prayer

    The ultimate purpose of prayer is to cultivate a deeper connection with God, nullifying the ego and being fully present in God’s presence. This practice is similar to shifting from ego to pristine mind, akin to meditative practices aimed at achieving unity with the divine. Prayer is an act of love, directing our attention to God and fostering a sense of unity.

    Intercessory Prayer in Jesus’ Teachings

    To align intercessory prayer with Jesus’ teachings, we can focus on simplicity and trust:

    For a Friend or Loved One:

    Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. I come to you with concern for my friend [Name], who is facing [specific challenge or need]. I trust in your wisdom and care for them. Thy will be done. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    For the Country or Government:

    Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. I lift up my country and its leaders to you, seeking your guidance and wisdom in these challenging times. May your will be done, and may peace and justice prevail. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Jewish Tradition and Prayer

    In Jewish mysticism, practices such as Hitbonenut offer profound spiritual insights that can enrich our understanding of prayer within the Christian tradition. For instance, Hitbonenut encourages introspection and deep contemplation to experience communion with God, aligning with the Christian emphasis on fostering a personal connection with the divine. This practice highlights the universal human quest for spiritual unity and the recognition of God’s boundless presence. By exploring these Jewish mystical traditions, Christians can deepen their own prayer practices and gain new perspectives on the divine relationship, ultimately enhancing their spiritual journey without conflicting with core Christian beliefs.

    These insights resonate with Jesus’ teachings on prayer, particularly the Our Father prayer, which encourages letting go of ego-driven requests to foster deep, trusting communion with God. Christian tradition speaks of a “peace that passeth understanding,” emphasizing prayer’s purpose to connect with profound peace, akin to experiencing boundless unity with the divine. Both traditions underscore the importance of unity with the divine, transcending ego-driven separateness to encounter God’s boundless presence, which brings blessings and deeper peace.

    Lessons from Job

    Job’s story exemplifies deep, trusting faith in God despite immense suffering. He did not engage in intercessory prayer or personal petitions but maintained his faith and devotion, trusting in God’s ultimate wisdom and goodness. Job’s faith was ultimately rewarded, demonstrating the power of steadfast trust in God.

    Deepening Your Experience with the Divine Presence

    In this very moment, you can deepen your experience with the Divine Presence by practicing surrender to the present moment. Let go of distractions and consciously bring your awareness to the here and now. Invoke the Divine Presence with a simple prayer or mantra like “Here I am, Lord,” allowing it to permeate your awareness. Engage in silent contemplation to create space for the Divine to reveal itself beyond words. Cultivate gratitude and reverence for the Divine in all things, recognizing its presence in the ordinary moments of life. Listen attentively to the inner voice of wisdom and discernment, trusting in the guidance of the Divine. Finally, integrate acts of service and compassion into your life, seeing and serving the Divine in others. By incorporating these practices, you can deepen your connection with the Divine Presence and live more aligned with the spiritual truths and teachings on prayer.

    Prayer with Joy and Trust

    Philippians 4:6-7 calls us to present our requests to God with thanksgiving, fostering trust and joyful anticipation:

    “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

    This scripture reinforces the idea that trust transforms prayer from a plea for help into a confident affirmation of God’s presence and care.

    Conclusion

    Reflecting on the essence of Christian prayer reveals its profound purpose: to deepen our connection with God and align our hearts with divine wisdom. By embracing simplicity, trust, and the transformative power of prayer, we embark on a journey of spiritual growth. Whether through the Our Father prayer, intercessory prayers, or reflections on spiritual teachings, prayer becomes a path to inner peace and communion with the divine. Let us continue to explore and practice prayer with open hearts, nurturing our relationship with God and embodying His love in the world.

    In moments of uncertainty and longing, it is comforting to remember that God knows our needs intimately. His wisdom extends beyond our understanding, guiding us with divine precision. Trusting in His timing and provision allows us to rest in faith, knowing that He orchestrates every detail for our ultimate good. As we deepen our prayer life, let us embrace this truth: God’s perfect knowledge and care fulfill our needs precisely when and how we need them, nurturing our trust and strengthening our communion with Him.

    “Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Thank you for using me as a vessel for your light in the world. A vessel of light, and love, and compassion, and forgiveness, and loving-kindness. Amen.”

    Personal Reflection and Application

    Reflect on your own prayer practices, focusing on cultivating a deeper connection with God. Balance the simplicity of the Our Father with compassionate prayers for specific needs, always rooted in trust and unity.

    Consider these questions for deeper reflection:

    • How does my current approach to prayer align with the teachings of Jesus on simplicity and trust?
    • In what ways can I let go of ego-driven requests and focus more on communion with God in my prayers?
    • How does the practice of trusting in God’s will change my perspective on intercessory prayer?
    • What can I learn from Job’s steadfast faith and apply to my own prayer life?
    • How can I cultivate a sense of joy and trust in God’s provision through prayer?

    I invite you to reflect on these questions and share your thoughts in the comments below. Let’s start a conversation about deepening our prayer life and experiencing greater unity with the divine.

    🙏🕊️🙏