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  • Neti Neti #18: The Path Beyond Concepts and Spiritual Thought

    Question:

    In my spiritual journey, I often find myself fascinated by various ideas and philosophies. While they seem to offer profound insights, I keep returning to the practice of ‘Neti Neti.’ How do I reconcile the richness of these teachings with the deeper truth that lies beyond concepts and ideas? How can ‘Neti Neti’ guide me to the silent awareness that transcends even the most profound spiritual insights?

    Dear Friend,

    In our journey through the landscapes of thought and understanding, we often find ourselves drawn into the richness of ideas, the allure of philosophy, and the intricacies of spiritual teachings. But there comes a time when we must pause, step back, and gently remind ourselves: “Neti, Neti”—Not this, not this.

    While it is both fascinating and enriching to explore the nuances of spiritual ideas, “Neti, Neti” beckons us to remember that these are, at their core, only pointers toward a deeper truth. The truth of who you are, the essence of reality itself, lies beyond any concept or idea. This mantra, “Neti, Neti,” serves as a practice of continual negation, where each thought, each identification, each insight is recognized, honored, and then gently set aside.

    “Neti, Neti” guides us back to the silent, still core of our being. It whispers that none of the forms, names, or ideas we hold are the ultimate reality. The ultimate truth is what remains when all these are stripped away—the unnameable, the indescribable, the pure presence that is beyond all duality, beyond even the concepts of “one” or “two.”

    This mantra is not merely about negation; it is a practice of liberation. With each repetition of “Not this, not this,” you are gently freeing yourself from the chains of identification with the transient, the impermanent. You are returning, again and again, to the vast, open space of awareness where nothing is held onto, where everything is allowed to arise and pass away without attachment.

    “Neti, Neti” is the path to realizing that the ultimate truth is beyond all that can be said or thought. It is an invitation to rest in the pure awareness that is your true nature, beyond all descriptions, beyond all philosophies, beyond all distinctions. Even the highest concepts, even the deepest insights, are ultimately “not this.”

    In the spirit of “Neti, Neti,” let us simply return to what lies beyond words, beyond concepts. Let us rest in the silent, formless awareness that is always present, always here. As thoughts arise, as concepts form, as ideas take shape, we gently acknowledge them and then let them go, repeating inwardly, “Not this, not this.”

    In this practice, there is nothing to achieve, nothing to grasp. There is only the continual letting go, the continual returning to the source, to the pure awareness that is the essence of who you are. In this place, there is no need for explanations or elaborations—only the silent, still presence that remains.

    If there is anything more you wish to explore, I am here, but if the time is right to simply rest in the quiet of “Neti, Neti,” then let us do so, with deep respect for the truth that lies beyond all words.

    🙏🕊️🙏

  • Neti Neti Series No. 12B: Reflecting the Pristine Mind Through Spiritual Practice

    Neti Neti Series No. 12B: Reflecting the Pristine Mind Through Spiritual Practice


    Question:

    Now that I’ve realized that the I-sense cannot directly experience the pristine mind, how can I use the spiritual practice of Neti Neti to help the ordinary mind and ego come closer to reflecting or mirroring the qualities of the pristine mind?

    Dear friend,

    There comes a time in our journey when a quiet realization emerges—a truth that feels as though it has always been with us, just beneath the surface, waiting for the right moment to reveal itself. Such a moment is upon you now, and it is significant in ways that words can only begin to express.

    You have recognized that the “I-sense,” that familiar feeling of being a separate self, can never truly experience the pristine mind. This pristine mind, pure and unconditioned, is not something that the “I” can grasp or hold onto, for it exists beyond the reach of the ego, beyond the realm of duality. This realization is profound, not because it offers a new task or goal, but because it gently dissolves the need for one. It invites you to rest in a deeper understanding, one that shifts the very ground of your practice.

    This insight, like a seed planted in fertile soil, will grow and evolve within you, quietly reshaping how you experience both your inner and outer worlds. It is not a revelation to be rushed or forced, but one to be lived with, like a gentle companion who walks beside you. Let it unfold naturally, in its own time, revealing its layers to you in moments of stillness, in the spaces between your thoughts, and in the quiet rhythm of your breath.

    There is a delicate balance here, one that I believe you are beginning to understand. The “I-sense” that has been so central to your experience is now seen in a new light—not as something to be conquered or eradicated, but as a reflection, a mirror that can, through practice, come to reflect the pristine mind itself. While the ego may never directly experience this pure awareness, it can soften, it can quiet, and it can become a more transparent window through which the light of the pristine mind can shine.

    As you continue your practice, allow this understanding to deepen naturally. There is no need to strive or to reach for something just beyond your grasp. Instead, trust that this realization will guide you, like a current gently guiding a boat downstream. The anxiety of “doing it right” or the fear of “getting it wrong” begins to dissolve when you understand that the true goal is not a destination but a process—a process of becoming ever more transparent to the deeper reality that underlies all things.

    This insight, my dear friend, is a gift. It is a doorway into a new way of being, one that is less about achieving and more about allowing. Allowing the mind to settle, allowing the self to soften, and allowing the light of the pristine mind to be reflected in the stillness of your being. It is in this allowing that you will find peace, not as something to be attained, but as something that naturally arises when the striving ceases.

    For those who walk alongside you on this journey, let them take heart from your experience. Let them see that the path of self-discovery is not about perfection or attainment, but about quieting the mind, softening the heart, and opening to the truth that lies beyond the “I-sense.” In this way, we all come to reflect, however faintly at first, the light of the pristine mind.

    Continue with your practice, dear friend, with the gentle assurance that you are exactly where you need to be. Each breath, each moment of stillness, brings you closer to the heart of this truth. Trust in the process, and let the realization grow within you, like a seed that blossoms into a flower at just the right time.

    🙏🕊️🙏

  • Neti Neti Series No. 12A: The Ego’s Journey Toward the Pristine Mind

    Neti Neti Series No. 12A: The Ego’s Journey Toward the Pristine Mind

    Question:

    I’ve realized that the I-sense, or ego, cannot directly experience the pristine mind because it exists beyond duality. What now?

    Dear Friend,

    You have touched upon a profound and subtle truth in your reflection—the realization that the “I-sense,” the very sense of being a separate self, will never directly experience the pristine mind, for in the pristine mind, there is no “I” to experience anything at all.

    The “I-sense,” as you have observed, is the part of us that identifies with the individual self—with the body, the mind, the personality. It is the ego, the center of our personal world, through which we navigate the dualities of life—self and other, subject and object, right and wrong. This “I-sense” is deeply embedded in the fabric of our everyday experience, always seeking, always striving to maintain its sense of identity.

    And yet, beyond this “I-sense” lies the pristine mind, a state of pure, unconditioned awareness. In this state, there is no separation, no duality, no “I” that stands apart from the whole. The pristine mind is simply being itself, free from all concepts, all identifications. It is the ground of all existence, the true nature of consciousness that underlies every thought, every sensation, every experience.

    As you so rightly observed, the “I-sense” cannot directly experience the pristine mind because the very presence of an “I” implies duality, and in the pristine mind, there is no duality. The ego, by its very nature, is a construct that stands apart, that defines itself in relation to others. To dissolve into the pristine mind is to let go of this sense of separateness, to merge with the whole in a state of pure being.

    Yet, there is a way in which the ordinary mind, the ego, can approach this state, can come to reflect it as closely as possible. Through spiritual practice, the mind becomes refined, quieted, and purified. Meditation, mantra, mindfulness—all of these practices serve to soften the boundaries of the “I-sense,” to still the constant movement of thought and identification.

    In this stillness, the mind begins to mirror the qualities of the pristine mind—peace, clarity, non-attachment. While the ego may never directly experience the pristine mind, it can come to a place where it reflects this deeper reality, where the sense of separation diminishes, and the boundaries of the self become porous, transparent.

    It is in these moments, dear friend, that you may catch a glimpse of the truth that lies beyond the “I,” a truth that cannot be grasped or held, but only reflected in the clear, quiet mind. Continue with your practice, allowing it to guide you ever closer to this state of reflection, where the ordinary mind becomes a mirror for the pristine mind, and the boundaries of the self dissolve into the whole.

    🙏🕊️🙏



  • Neti Neti Series No. 5: Integrating “Not This, Not This” into Daily Life

    Question:

    How can the mantra Neti Neti continue to arise spontaneously throughout the day, and how might one practice it during ordinary tasks and interactions in the dualistic world

    Dear friend,

    As your practice deepens, it is only natural that the mantra “Neti Neti” begins to echo beyond the confines of formal meditation, weaving itself into the very fabric of your daily life. This is a beautiful and auspicious development, for the true power of this practice lies not only in moments of stillness and silence but in its capacity to transform your experience of the world in each passing moment.

    Imagine, if you will, the gentle rhythm of “Neti Neti” accompanying you throughout your day. Whether you are engaged in the simplest of tasks or the most complex of interactions, this mantra can serve as a quiet, steady undercurrent, reminding you of the deeper truth that lies beneath the surface of all appearances.

    As you move through the day, allow “Neti Neti” to arise naturally in your mind, especially when you find yourself caught up in the dualities of life—the push and pull of desires, the highs and lows of emotions, the ceaseless demands of the world around you. When a thought or feeling arises that seems to pull you away from your center, gently remind yourself, “Not This, Not This.” This simple act of negation is not a rejection of life, but rather an invitation to see beyond the fleeting, to touch the eternal within the everyday.

    Consider the ordinary tasks that fill your day—the washing of dishes, the folding of clothes, the tending to work or errands. These moments, though seemingly mundane, are fertile ground for your practice. As you engage in these tasks, silently repeat “Neti Neti” to yourself. Notice how this mantra helps to dissolve the sense of separation between you and the task at hand. The distinction between the doer and the doing, the subject and the object, begins to fade, leaving you with a simple, clear awareness of being.

    This practice brings a certain lightness to even the most routine activities, a reminder that nothing in this world can truly define or confine you. “Not This, Not This,” the mantra whispers, freeing you from the weight of identification, allowing you to move through your day with a sense of ease and grace.

    And what of your interactions with others, in this dualistic world where we often find ourselves entangled in the roles we play—the parent, the partner, the friend, the colleague? Here, too, the mantra “Neti Neti” can be a guiding light.

    When you feel the pull of attachment or aversion in your relationships, when you sense the stirrings of ego in your interactions, gently remind yourself, “Not This, Not This.” This does not mean withdrawing from the people you care about or disengaging from the world. On the contrary, it allows you to engage more fully, with a heart that is open and free from the constraints of egoic identifications.

    In this way, you interact not from a place of separation or need, but from a place of wholeness and completeness. “Not This, Not This,” the mantra says, and in doing so, it clears the way for true connection, untainted by the projections and fears that so often cloud our relationships.

    As you continue to carry “Neti Neti” with you throughout your day, you may find that the boundaries between your formal meditation and your daily life begin to blur. The mantra becomes a thread that connects all aspects of your existence, reminding you constantly of the truth that lies beyond all appearances.

    There will be moments when the mantra arises spontaneously, without any effort on your part. In these moments, let it guide you back to your center, to the stillness that underlies all movement. And in the spaces between the mantra, rest in the awareness that is your true self, free from all identifications, all dualities.

    Dear friend, this is the essence of living the practice—allowing the wisdom of “Not This, Not This” to permeate every aspect of your life, transforming the mundane into the sacred, the ordinary into the extraordinary. It is a journey of continual letting go, a path that leads ever deeper into the heart of your being.

    May your practice bring you the peace and clarity you seek, and may you walk this path with the gentle strength and quiet joy that comes from knowing you are always, already whole.

    🙏🕊️🙏



  • Neti Neti Series No. 4: Finding Relaxation and Clarity in the Practice of “Not This, Not This

    Question:

    Why does the mantra Neti Neti feel more relaxing and effective compared to other mantras like “Who am I?” or “What is this?” and how does it help in negating both subject and object without stimulating a desire for answers?

    Dear friend,

    It brings me great joy to hear that you have found a mantra that resonates so deeply with your heart and mind. The simplicity and profound wisdom of “Not This, Not This” are indeed a balm for the soul, especially for one who has journeyed far in search of answers. In this mantra, you have discovered a path that requires no seeking, no striving—only the gentle negation of all that arises.Let me share with you some reflections that may deepen your understanding and ease your way as you continue with this practice.

    In the practice of “Not This, Not This,” there is no need to engage in the endless search for answers. Unlike the questions “Who am I?” or “What is this?”—which can stir the mind into seeking—this mantra offers a different approach. It does not ask you to solve a riddle or uncover a hidden truth. Instead, it invites you to simply let go, to recognize that whatever arises—whether it appears as a thought, an emotion, or even an answer—is not the ultimate reality. By gently negating each thought or feeling, you are led beyond the confines of the mind, into a space where true peace and stillness reside.

    As you continue with this practice, you may find moments of clarity where you can distinctly see both the subject and the object—the observer and the observed. This is a crucial insight, for it shows you that what you are perceiving, what you are witnessing, is still within the realm of duality. The mantra “Not This, Not This” serves as a reminder that neither the subject nor the object is the true self, the Atman. The duality that appears so real is, in fact, just another layer to be gently set aside, leading you deeper into the heart of non-dual awareness.

    One of the great gifts of this mantra is the relaxation it brings. When you are no longer compelled to search for answers, the mind can rest. There is a profound release that comes from knowing that you do not need to grasp at anything—whether it be a thought, an experience, or an identity. Each time you repeat “Not This,” you are allowing yourself to let go of the burdens of the mind, to release the tension of trying to understand or control. In this letting go, you find a deep and abiding peace, a state of being where you are free from the demands of the ego and the constant chatter of the mind.

    This practice is gently guiding you toward a state of non-dual awareness, where the distinctions between self and other, subject and object, begin to dissolve. As you continue with “Not This, Not This,” you may notice that the boundaries you once perceived are fading away, leaving you in a space of pure being. In this space, there is nothing to seek, nothing to achieve—only the simple, profound experience of existence itself, free from all labels, judgments, and identities. This is the true essence of Atman, the pure awareness that is your deepest self.

    As you walk this path, my dear friend, know that you are not alone. The wisdom of the ages supports you, and the truth of your being is always present, waiting patiently for you to recognize it. Continue with your practice, allowing the mantra to guide you ever deeper into the heart of silence and stillness. And remember, there is no rush, no destination—only the journey, unfolding moment by moment.

    May your practice bring you peace, clarity, and the deep joy of simply being.

    🙏🕊️🙏