Into the Mystic: Hitbonenut and the Path of Dissolution into the Divine

The Journey Continues

In the journey of Jewish mysticism, Hitbonenut stands as a gateway to true contemplation, an invitation to move beyond the mind’s grasping and into the silent vastness of divine presence. Unlike traditional meditation, which often focuses on concentration, Hitbonenut opens the heart to experience, not through thinking, but through the quiet surrender of the self. Inspired by my conversations with Rabbi Shmuel Reich, this post explores Hitbonenut as a pathway to Bittul—a dissolving of ego that leads to Ein Sof, the boundless divine.

Hitbonenut: Beyond Thought, Beyond Self

Hitbonenut, or contemplation, is more than simply focusing the mind on an idea—it is a practice that prepares the heart and mind to dissolve into the divine through Bittul (self-nullification). Rabbi Shmuel often emphasized that Hitbonenut is not merely meditation as commonly understood but an opening into a vast, boundless state where the self, with all its concepts and boundaries, melts away into Ein Sof, the Infinite. This contemplative state aligns with what Dzogchen calls “pristine awareness” or what Christian mystics like Saint John of the Cross describe as the “dark night” of pure contemplation.

In the words of the Alter Rebbe, Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, Hitbonenut involves immersing oneself in the twin sources of divine light—sovev (transcendent) and memale (immanent)—allowing these aspects to penetrate deeply until the boundaries between self and divine dissolve. Rabbi Shmuel echoed this teaching, suggesting that through Hitbonenut, “we let go of the illusion of separation,” arriving at a state where we no longer perceive ourselves as separate entities but as part of the divine unfolding itself.

A Practice of Letting Go

For those inspired to explore Hitbonenut, the practice is one of gentle release rather than mental control. Begin by choosing a divine concept or phrase to contemplate—perhaps the boundlessness of Ein Sof itself. Let the mind rest on this concept, but instead of trying to “figure it out,” allow your thoughts to quiet. As thoughts naturally rise and fall, practice letting them pass without clinging to them. Over time, this brings the mind to a non-conceptual stillness, where even the idea of a “self” softens and dissolves.

Rabbi Shmuel described this process as “training the mind to be calm and quiet, like rabbis of old, who would spend hours in silence before prayer, merging with Ein Sof through Bittul.” In this silence, the ego relaxes, and the self opens into a vast presence, where all notions of “I” and “other” fall away. This is the true heart of Hitbonenut—not a mental exercise, but an invitation to rest in divine unity, beyond words and concepts.