10: Embracing Your Own Pace: The Conclusion of Our Post-Viral ME/CFS Exercise Journey

Dear Friends,

As we come to the conclusion of this series on exercising with post-viral ME/CFS, I want to offer you a heartfelt reflection on the journey we’ve been exploring together. It’s been a path of discovery, patience, and above all, compassion—compassion for yourself, your body, and your unique experience with ME/CFS.

We’ve discussed everything from imagining workouts while lying in bed, to sitting in the parking lot of a gym, to slowly integrating light movements and mindful gym sessions. This spectrum of activity is not only about physical exercise but about honoring your current energy levels, emotions, and overall well-being.

Your Unique Path of Wellness

Living with post-viral ME/CFS, we understand that each day can be different. Some days, simply imagining a gentle workout, breathing mindfully, or visualizing movements while resting in bed might be the most appropriate and loving action for your body. On other days, maybe you can manage a shower, do a few dishes, or perhaps stretch or go for a very short, slow walk. These moments are victories. They are gentle movements toward health, and they count just as much as lifting weights or running miles.

As you know, post-viral ME/CFS requires a delicate balance between rest and activity, and this balance changes depending on how your body is feeling from day to day. The most important practice we’ve emphasized throughout this series is listening to yourself, checking in frequently, and not pushing beyond what feels sustainable. Your body is guiding you, and it knows what it needs.

From Visualizations to Gentle Movements

Remember, if you are visualizing a workout or even imagining your body moving while lying down, this is still a powerful practice. It connects your mind with your muscles and breath, keeping your awareness sharp and your spirit engaged. Some days, this practice might feel like the perfect balance—bringing you peace, relaxation, and a sense of accomplishment without straining your energy.

On other days, the thought of leaving the house or driving to the gym might feel achievable, even if the workout doesn’t happen. Simply being in that environment—sitting in the parking lot or spending time among others exercising—can offer motivation and encouragement. It’s an act of being present, of showing up for yourself without expectation.

Every Step is Progress

For those days when you feel you can engage in more, maybe it’s a small set of physical movements at home. Doing a few dishes, a brief stretching session, or just getting up to do light housework is meaningful. These activities are achievements. By mindfully engaging in these everyday actions, you bring a sense of calm and purpose to your day.

Some of you may eventually reach a point where you feel strong enough to go to the gym or engage in a consistent exercise routine, but the key is to always move forward at your own pace—gently, kindly, and without judgment.

Well Wishes for Your Journey

The most important takeaway from this series is that exercise can mean many different things, and it’s essential that you define it in a way that respects your body’s unique rhythms and needs. Exercise isn’t about how much you can push or accomplish; it’s about how well you can listen to your body and respond to its cues with love and care.

You are not alone in this journey. There is a community of people who understand, who are walking a similar path, and who honor each victory, no matter how small it may seem. Whether you are visualizing a workout from bed, taking a short walk, or simply taking the time to breathe mindfully, you are engaging in a practice of self-care and healing.

I wish you strength, patience, and compassion on this path. May your journey be one of growth, self-love, and acceptance. Celebrate every step you take, and remember that wellness is not about perfection—it is about finding peace and balance within yourself.

With heartfelt encouragement and well wishes,

Richard Silverman

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